what is a uke and a seme??

is it like uke is the smaller one and Mehr weaker and the seme is the taller Mehr stronger one oder am I completely wrong??
 Firebender-16 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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bubblegum_kiss said:
its not necessarily "smaller and weaker" and "bigger and stronger" (although many times that is the case). its Mehr like (and correct me guys if this sounds off cause i suck at explaining) the seme is the dominate one in the relationship and the uke is the opposite (and Von opposite i do not mean necessarily submissive because many times theyre not..).
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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wikipedia can probably explain this to Du alot better than me cause im not very good at explanations
bubblegum_kiss posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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oh ok
Firebender-16 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
gkazeuishida said:
Sorta..Uke would be the girl an Seme would be the guy in a boy X boy relationship, if I'm not mistaken :)
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not "girl".
bubblegum_kiss posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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the uke usually bottoms but thats the only thing. emotionally it has nothing to do with that
bubblegum_kiss posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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oh yea i forgot about winter cicada....
bubblegum_kiss posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
NeuroticSinner said:
Not necessarily; the "Seme" is simply the Dominant one in the Relationship and the "Uke" is the Submissive one.
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not really cause most of the time the uke isnt submissive
bubblegum_kiss posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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..I guess you're right; most of the time Ukes are portrayed as Unwilling Rape-Victims.
NeuroticSinner posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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i was thinking Mehr along the lines of not-willing-to-admit-im-gay-tsundere but yea some of them are unwilling rape victims....
bubblegum_kiss posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
NarutoCrypt said:
the uke is typically the weaker and smaller. the seme, is taller and stronger(typically) and has a duty to protect the uke! :D
hope i helped u!
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ArisaMAG said:
I'm not the best at explaining but I would say that the Uke is the one that "receives" and the Seme is the one that "gives". At least, that's how I think about it.
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Emseeem said:
The words uke and seme come from the Japanese words 受ける(ukeru) and 攻める(semeru), which mean "to recieve" and "to attack" respectively. Basically, the attacker (seme) makes romantic advances and is the dominating partner during sex, while the receiver (uke) is just the object of the seme's affections.

At least, that's how it goes in typical BL archetypes.
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