Shy People
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Hey how many of Du are sick of being asked this Frage WHY DONT Du TALK?
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Why Shy People Don't Talk
Von Malaika Booker-Wright
October 12, 1999
A group of best Friends are sitting at a round tabelle in a restaurant. They're discussing a hot topic. One of the Friends is sitting in the corner not talking. Most people would say this friend is timid, inhibited, and/or passive.
They would label this friend, "shy."
However, couldn't this friend be someone who is tired of talking when no one is listening?
Couldn't this friend be someone who has no need to prove their knowledge of the subject matter?
Couldn't this friend be sympathetic enough not to insult the intelligence of others?
Listen
People don't listen. It's rare for one to speak before another breaks through one's sentence with a rebuttal. If, Von chance, one gets a complete thought out, others hear the words but only absorb parts that suit them.
Shy people hate to talk in vain. They would rather use the time and energy for constructive things and constructive people.
Learn
People talk a lot so everyone thinks they're intelligent. For them, it's never enough to know they are intelligent. They must prove it.
Shy people are content knowing they are intelligent, and have no need to prove their intelligence. They wonder if other's mouths get tired of babbling on about things. Their ears get tired of listening to the babble.
Understand
Ever hear of the phrase, "If Du don't have anything good to say, don't say anything at all?" This is the Motto of all shy people.
They would rather be silent instead of using demure insults oder obscene language to get their point across.
Conclusion
So, Du see, shy people have been misunderstood for decades. The Weiter time a shy person is quiet, ask them, "What are Du really thinking?" They may answer truthfully. They may answer with "nothing," in keeping with their motto. After this revelation, don't Du wish Du were shy?
Why Shy People Don't Talk
Von Malaika Booker-Wright
October 12, 1999
A group of best Friends are sitting at a round tabelle in a restaurant. They're discussing a hot topic. One of the Friends is sitting in the corner not talking. Most people would say this friend is timid, inhibited, and/or passive.
They would label this friend, "shy."
However, couldn't this friend be someone who is tired of talking when no one is listening?
Couldn't this friend be someone who has no need to prove their knowledge of the subject matter?
Couldn't this friend be sympathetic enough not to insult the intelligence of others?
Listen
People don't listen. It's rare for one to speak before another breaks through one's sentence with a rebuttal. If, Von chance, one gets a complete thought out, others hear the words but only absorb parts that suit them.
Shy people hate to talk in vain. They would rather use the time and energy for constructive things and constructive people.
Learn
People talk a lot so everyone thinks they're intelligent. For them, it's never enough to know they are intelligent. They must prove it.
Shy people are content knowing they are intelligent, and have no need to prove their intelligence. They wonder if other's mouths get tired of babbling on about things. Their ears get tired of listening to the babble.
Understand
Ever hear of the phrase, "If Du don't have anything good to say, don't say anything at all?" This is the Motto of all shy people.
They would rather be silent instead of using demure insults oder obscene language to get their point across.
Conclusion
So, Du see, shy people have been misunderstood for decades. The Weiter time a shy person is quiet, ask them, "What are Du really thinking?" They may answer truthfully. They may answer with "nothing," in keeping with their motto. After this revelation, don't Du wish Du were shy?
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