I've been trying to think of hard questions and I think this question is pretty hard. However, I'm going with this one because the parent is supposed to protect their child but is helpless as they're being forced to see their child sexually assaulted. The kid will have to live with the trauma forever. Both are traumatic for both parties, but this one is worse because the child experiences this and no child should have to experience this (Well, no one in general but especially not an innocent child).

Can't pick

Christ, both would be ungodly horrific and for different reasons. But I lean more forwards this because I know several victims of childhood sexual assault and that shit doesn’t go away.