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Ok...I need to get some outside opinions on this:

Ok...Been dating this guy for a few months...we've offically been using the "boyfriend and girfriend" titles... so here's the story...30 Sekunden to midnight on New Years eve...his cell phone rings..he picks it up thinking its family...well it isnt...its some girl calling to tell him "Happy New Year"...he gets all nervous and flustered and breaks out into this huge sweat...I mean Du can clearly see he's nervous about this call...well it seriously ruined our first New Years together...I wasnt upset about the call...just his reaction to it...he says they're just Friends and that she's engaged to another guy...so now we come to last night....I'm at Home and I text him and he doesnt response until like 45 mins later (which is very unlike him) and it turns out that they went to abendessen together. He says that they're "just friends" but today I found out that her fiancee dumped her. I am very hurt and upset Von this whole thing. Half my Friends say to dump him ...the other half says that I should Zeigen him trust and stay with him. Any thoughts?

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jacob4ever57 said:

For right now i would say to stay with him. Your other Friends are right. Du have to trust the other person in your relationship. But if Du think he shows signs of cheating definitely confront him about it, and make it clear that it's unacceptable and if he does it one Mehr time he's outta there. But make sure if Du do accuse him, Du know for sure that he did, oder you'll look like a fool who doesn't trust him.
So yeah for now just stay with him unless something doesn't seem right. ;) Good luck!

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Du rock...thanks

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summer448 said:

i say ask him straight up
cause he is oviousy hidding something from you

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Lunzzy1 said:

I would ask him and whatever he tells Du and after that what ever Du feel is right Du have to do it and make sure its the right thing to do. Follow your herz :) :( ;) Lunzzy1!!!!!

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Thanks! ^-^

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scogburn said:

The above Antwort are good, and I would also let him know that this bothers Du and hurts your feelings. If he does not want to hurt you, he should respect your wishes not to see this girl again. Also, any time he talks to her, he should tell Du about it. Du tell him Du want to know when they talk and who called who. Hang in there, if he really cares about you, it will work out.

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Thanks...I guess I just need to step back and breathe.....

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icewolf10 said:

dump him

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R33n33sm3 said:

well,this is a very difficult situation,you've been put in.
Isn't it hard to want to trust someone though there are this emotions Du feel Du can't trust him?

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There are alot of possibilities...
[i] *Possibly she was he's ex.before he met you,he might want to clear out everything between them,explaining her,that he met Du now and it's better to remain friends.

*He might really be her friend,and nothing more!

*And ofcourse it's also likely to pretend they're Friends and eventually be his double girlfriend.

*Possibly,know feels something for the girl.
For now everything should be good,
I agree Du should trust him,...
though don't fall inside the lie.
If this continues and he starts going frequently out with 'his friend' be sure to ask him if Du could go also with him.
Study they're faces,
what does it tell?
is it anything behind the friendly smiles they're sharing?
Is it Mehr than just pure friendship?

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djtt said:

ok i cant pretend to be an expert but id just put myself out of my misary and dump him.

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richard_angel2 said:

stay with him. because the other girl just need someone to talk to, especially in hard time (her fiance dumped her)

maybe she doesn't have Friends and your boyfriend is the only person she can talk to. . .

so i suggest Du stay with him =)

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Isabella_tran said:

Forget that boy. He is not worthy. If Du still Liebe him, talk directly to him oder his "friend"

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