The guy I have a major crush on has a girlfriend now. What should I do?

I have liked him since last summer. He is sweet and smart and cute and popular. He treats girls very well. But, just when I started to think he liked me, and just when I figured that I would have a chance, he gets a girlfriend. I cried to my friend when I found out. Plus, he is in a different grade, so in the school Jahr we never have classes together. I never got a chance to tell him how much I care...IDK what I should do! Help!
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I have a similar case and IDK what to do 2...
Aglaia posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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me too. to Aglaia
summerlynn1978 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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I would just tell him and see what he says oder I probally would just wait till they break up I do not even know even though I have to deal with 2 boyfriends but my 1st one had a girlfriend till the Tag he was new till the 3weeks till school was out then he asked me and I sagte yes so we are still dating but I do not really trust him because it is the summer but yeah I am so sorry if this does not help Du but that is all I had to say cause I do not want to talk about my Sekunde boyfriend so good luck and like I sagte I am sorry if this do not help Du
22478 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
 DolphinLover97 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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IsabellaAzuria said:
Well try to tell him what Du feel about him, don't try to force anything though. Just do it Von a letter, through the internet oder cellphone message. If he really likes you, he will tell Du and leave his current gf for Du BUT Du may not insist if he tells Du that he is happy with his girlfriend. In that case anything Du would try to do to wreck his relationship with the girl would make him dislike you. In a case in which he would betray his girlfriend with Du and tell Du he'll leave her soon, don't fall for that. Either he loves Du and leaves her oder he just doesn't. I wish Du the best of luck for that. Even if he doesn't like Du this way, I'm sure Du will find someone who will Liebe you.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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that is a great ansewer and I agree with Du
22478 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
xBellaxEwardx21 said:
Ok, My bestfriend has almost the same problem alittle diffrent thoguh. He has a girlfriend there is not to much Du can do about that. Du dont want to break them up even if Du like him alot. The first thing Du want to do is talk to this guy. Tell him that Du do have feelinfgs for him, tell him your willing to wait it out and see how he feels. Du never want to pressur someone cause then they totaly wont like Du back. After Du guys talk i would lay low and give him some Weltraum to think. If he comes back and says he has feeling for Du to, then wait it out and see where things go with him and his gf. If he says that he dosnt like you, well let it go. But i know how hard it is to let it go, always keep a foot in. Becuase Du never know, he might be hiding his feelings cause he is scared. Most guys can not express thiuer feelings beacuse even though its hard to belive. Guys have feelings too! LOL so jsut see how things go! ZTell him Du ned 2 talk to hima bout it cause apprently Du both like eachother as freiends oder as Mehr then friends. Du two need to work things out. Cause mabye he dose like Du but he thinks Du dont like him and thats why he choose to go out with someone else. But i know how hard it can be to talk to a guy. Im a girl too! Du need to talk to him in person ,that is always the best way. It is the hardest but best way. Du ahve to startoff Von telling him how Du feel. Then ask him if he ever did have feeling for you. He might lie to ur face, being it is face to face conctat and guys can get pretty....ummmm how do Du say embarssed with that. But Du jsut have to come straight out and tell him how Du feel. He might not resepnd the way Du want him to but he will think your Merida - Legende der Highlands and amaazing for talking to him in person and not over text oder E-Mail ;) even on the phone will work after Du have worked things out. Add me and tell me how things go :)
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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GOOD JOB
22478 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
Lunatic said:
Wait until his current relationship finishes, then tell him how Du feel.

DO NOT flirt while he is still with someone. Would Du like it if some girl started flirting with your boyfriend? (A: No. Du wouldn't.)

Obviously, since he is going out with her, he likes her. Even if it makes Du miserable, Du should respect that she makes him happy. (Isn't it just hell?)
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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that is right
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LabraLege said:
beliebt guys will never admire some girl crying for him :) don't bother.
But if Du want to have him Du need to be diffirent from his girlfriend. To get his attention. I don't know, maybe Du should just change your hair color to rosa (it helped my sister) oder do something that he would never dare to do...
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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she shouldn't have to change herself for a guy. And she shouldn't have to be better then hia grilfriend. She should just beherself! He is Friends with her cause she is herself and apprently he likes her too!
xBellaxEwardx21 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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It's not about changing for HIM!
LabraLege posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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yeah I agree with LabraLege it is not about changing yourself for a guy so just tell him how Du feel and don't do what anyone else tells Du just say what Du believe in and WHO Du believe in
22478 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
Eclipse said:
I would ask him if he knows that u like him oder if he likes u and hes just tryfing to make u jelous cause u no how ego centeric guys can be but anyway, i would ask him and go from that.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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That is very true 2, guys liek to make girls jelous! ALOT! haha
xBellaxEwardx21 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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that is SOOOOOO true because my cousin told my boyfriend that I a dating NOW that I liked him and he sagte I know so we have been going out for about a Monat now I think I am not sure it was 3weeks before school was out but I Liebe him with all my herz but on the other hand one of my brothers Friends asked me out so now I have to deal with both of them BUT I Liebe my first baby first I don't rally like the other one but sorry I agree with Du Eclipse
22478 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
peterslover said:
How long Vor did he get his new girlfriend? That can make a difference. If it's been months, then do Du really want to be the one who breaks up a relationship? If it hasn't been that long, then do Du now have the courage to stop him between classes and mention that Du care alot for him? Stay true to yourself-NEVER be something that your not just for a guy, oder anyone!! I hope I am of some help. ♥
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 How long Vor did he get his new girlfriend? That can make a difference. If it's been months, then do Du really want to be the one who breaks up a relationship? If it hasn't been that long, then do Du now have the courage to stop him between classes and mention that Du care alot for him? Stay true to yourself-NEVER be something that your not just for a guy, oder anyone!! I hope I am of some help. ♥
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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About 2/3 weeks ago...
DolphinLover97 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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well Du could still go for it don't be scared if she gets mad it is ok because. I know someone who is going to go to 7th grade with me Weiter Jahr and she wants to fight me because I am dating my boyfriend and she use to like him so it is ok
22478 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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GO FOR IT
22478 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
cheery_blossom said:
Wait it out, flirting nonstop (subtly) and catch him on the rebound.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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Why would Du want to just be the rebound chick while he is still getting over his ex?
Lunatic posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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no bad idea
22478 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
sweet_n_silly said:
That happens to me alot. I'm not sure if this is the best thing to do, but I just wait it out. I flirt a little bit, when his gf isn't around of course, and hope they breakup happily. Beware of the gf though!!!! If she even starts to get suspicious, pull back. other than that, don't try to be the one to throw a wrench in their relationship and be patient. When things go sour, which they most likely will, be ready to catch him. That's when the hook drives the deepest.
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Hey me too want to be my Fan
22478 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
Black_cat_ said:
there are a few ways to deal with this, 1 is 2 tell him how u feel and dont expect anything from him, wait till he breaks up with her and tell him (is risky i did it and it turned out she liked me b4 she got a bf), oder hide ur feelings till they go away. all of the choices r hard and most of them dont lead to anything. ur best bet 2 me is 2 just tel him right now how u feel and just see what happenes hun, otherwise ul just be waiting and either hopeing oder not knowing
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ok????
22478 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
Twili12 said:
Hey, it's okay if this happens to you. You're not alone on this one. Well, what I would do is, just wait until he breaks up with his girlfriend. It depends what age Du are at. Like, if Du are not in high school yet, them breaking up is HIGHLY likely. But, if Du do think this boy may have had oder does have feelings for you, he might realize that you're the one he truly likes. I'm sorry if this doesn't help you, but feel free to send me a message.For now, just try and talk to him nicely when ever Du see him. Act lady like, polite, smart, and ask him some questions, don't let yourself do all the talking lol! But I'm sure Du will be okay. Ask him how his relationship is doing. If he points out some of his girlfriends' flaws, (ex. so and so shops too much. So and so talks about herself too much. Etc.) then try to Zeigen him that you're not like that. Well, that's a summery about how I would try to go at this situation, but if Du still have some questions, feel free to message me. I'm sorry if this doesn't help. Good luck!
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