Since when is being a daydreamer, and following your herz selfish? She did not know completely what she was getting herself into, and it was still hard for her to sign the contract, besides its not like this was a one sided thing- her father didnt make things easier Von putting a hold on her, and he even admitted it himself. But there are couple times where she is concerned for her father and her sisters- she says " If I become human, I will never be with my father oder sisters again". So I am not going to sit and listen to anyone call her selfish anymore oder use the word selfish like its not a bad thing, because its common sense to anyone with half a brain that being selfish is a very bad thing. Everyone knows that. There is nothing good about being even a little selfish. So stop calling her that. NO ones needs; she didn't need the approval of anyone but herself if she want to chase her dreams- that would have been being too concerned with what others think, which is also not good. But family is different and she did consider them. Alot of Du guys are very mixed up about the word selfish. I don't know where Du got the info that it was an okay thing to be even a little selfish but you're wrong, The thesaurus says other words for selfish ( which I didn't have to use- cause its common sense) are: mean, mean spirited, ego-maniac, egocentric, cold-hearted, thinks only about the benefit of ones self, thinks of only how to gain things for ones self. These are not good ways to be. The Beast was put under a curse for being selfish- Gaston is selfish and Conceited. So think before Du use it again because Du are using it way out of context. And I will always correct you. If Du Liebe Ariel, don't do it cause it makes no sense. Not only her, but none of the Disney Princesses are selfish. Thats why this word is being misused.