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Ok so something happened with this 18 Jahr old guy...

Ok so one Tag my homegirl got me talking to this 18 Jahr old guy, his name is Carlos. We never meet before so we texted and talked over the phone and when we finally did meet he sure gave me a memory i will never forget...and its not a good one. So since he knew where my homegirl Diana lived he knew that i lived just up the straße from her. So one Tag when i was walking back from school he caught up to me. The thing was he should have been at work and we never even planned to meet. (By this time my homegirl had moved closed to her high school). So we met and he told me to get in the car. I did but i told him to turn off the car and i left the door open a lil bit. So we started talking and everthing was going fine. Until he leaned over and kissed me. I quickly backed away because i was kinda shocked that he did that. I did tell him not to do that but when i told him he most of thought i was kiddin. So he did it again he was kissin, lickin, and suckin my neck and shovin his tongue down my throat. I didnt know what to do. I tried to get out but he trapped me in the seat. Luckily my phone rang i told him i had to go i quickly got off his car and left. After that i havent been the same i dont laugh as much its hard to smile and lately ive been pushin my Friends away. Only one of my Friends knows and its not Diana. Diana and Carlos dont talk to each other anymore i dont know why. But what should i do to try to forget about what Carlos did to me. I dont talk to him anymore because after that he asked me out when i told him no he just stopped talkin to me, which is a good thing. But i cant get that memory outta my mind what should i do????
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can i ask how old were you?
PrincessGurl posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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i checked her Profil and it says 14, so booo carlos, he's a frikin Pheodaphile
Free_Spirit posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
 MizzUnperfect posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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BellaBrooke said:
okay so Du don't like the memory and it is driving Du away from yourself, like Von pushing away Friends and behave untypically. I would say Du should do the opposite, like lean on your Friends and go out making better memories to overwrite this one, but try not to think about this particular memory while hanging out in the mall oder watch a movie. Weiter time just please be careful who Du meet, Du can also now say Du learned something from this accident like to be Mehr careful. I guess Du just have this memory stuck in your head becasue Du weren't expecting it to happen and feel used. let's say the guy was into Du and just had a fast way to expression it...sometimes it helps too....hope I could help you
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Sealionloue said:
Luckily the phone rang who new what was gonna happen.... Anyway Pretend it was all a dream oder think of somthing k? I watched my boyfriend a cousin KISS just after we had a date, and the Weiter Tag he did exactly the same we have teilt, split up now.
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Cleo55 said:
i say that Du should just try to forget it ever happened. and i say Du should talk to your frends about this they can maybe help Du get over it.
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