Relationship Help?

well let me get this straight
there are 2 guys lets call them A and B
so guy A is your boyfriend
B is a close friend
ok..
my Guter Rat break up with your boyfriends. (first thing) Hey to be honest, it better to not be in a relationship then be in one where it feels like nothing. seriously. it not anout Du getting another boy. it about Du being happy. if Du are not satisfied with him then BREAK UP. it not about like Du know how ppl think if Du dont have a BF/ GF you're in a way not cool. this issue i would consider as a separate one. seriously. break up.

as for your friend, this depends on a lot of thing. mainly, how much Du value your friendship with him. cause as far as i know, when Du get together with a close friend then break up, Du aren't as close anymore. there is this sort of awkward tension. so it really depends.
GOOD LUCK!

ok, so with the boyfriend (which Du want to deal with first) if Du dont like being with him anymore, there is no reason to stay with him. leave him. better no relationship than a dead-end one. and dont stay with him just cause your afraid of being alone, thats no good.

once youve dealt with the boyfriend, then Du can start to work out your feelings for your friend. the Fragen to ask yourself are: do Du realy like him that way? are Du willing to risk your friendship with him? would Du be ok with being just Friends with him? takeing that step between Friends and dateing is a huge risk, cause once youve taken that step, Du cant go back. Du could breakup and go back to being Friends but it will never be the same between Du two, it just wont. then again if Du realy like him and being just Friends with him isnt ok with Du anymore, then Du realy dont hav much of a choice, Du either take the leap oder become unhappy with the relationship and drift apart.