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Can somebody help me?

Ok I need help with something.I like a boy but I dont know if he likes me back.I mean,he smiles at me all the time,he looks at me all the time,hes saying my name all the time,one Tag he even holded my hand for a while but when I asked him if he likes someone he sagte yes(another girl).My Friends sagte that maybe hes lieing cuz he doesnt want to Zeigen me that he likes me but i dont really know if thats the truth.I want to ask him if he really likes me but I am too shy for that and I dont know how to ask him.Can somebody give me an Guter Rat and tell me what to do?






















 MarylovesSelena posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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Guter Rat on Love, Crushes, and More! Antwort

MileySelena982 said:
He could easily be lying. But I'd wait, just a tad longer. Maybe have your Friends ask his Friends if he likes you. A boy can be REALLY shy about things they like. For example; my crush did the same thing Du guy's doing. Just last week he had the nerve to talk to me, and when he did, well... only have of it made since. But it made me smile which made him smile which made me smile wider.

Now what I'd do,
1. If he smiles and stares, smile and stare back.
2. Flirt (Probably the best one to do)
3. If he askes Du out ANYWHERE be ssure to say yes as fast as Du can. Even bofore he's finished his sentence. Makes him no you're interested.
4. Make small talk. Small talk grows into a bigger conversation. (Talking's the best thing to do)
5. Finally, if nothing else works... work up the nerve and tell him how Du really feel. He may be urged to do the same.

I'll send vannilamoon a message about you. She's great with advice.

I hope everything works out! And may Liebe find it's way to you! -JC
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thanks so much for the advice.it really helped me alot :D
MarylovesSelena posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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You're welcome. :)
MileySelena982 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
vanillamoon08 said:
Ugh, I really hate mix-messages situations. -_- I was in one recently myself with my crush.
So, I read this Frage last night and I've thought about it. It seems like to me that if he hadn't told Du that he likes another girl, that he definitely likes you. If somebody stares and smiles at you, that is a big sign that they like you. But not only did your crush do that, but he also held your hand.

And, yes, sometimes guys lie to throw a girl off. Maybe they want to play things out some more, oder they want to wait and see if the girl they likes really likes him back. oder something. XD Guys can be complicated.
Here's a link that might help Du know if he truly likes Du oder not: link
This might help Du too: link

So, okay. XD I think Du should wait a little longer and see what happens. Play things out a little. If he flirts, flirt back. If he smiles at Du smile back (basically what MileySelena982 said), and see how he reacts. I understand that you're shy, because I am too, but when the time comes, Du might want to talk to him about how Du feel. For us shy people, I would do texting over actual talking. BUT, keep in mind, texting is very indirect and he might not reply right away.
If Du want to ask him if he likes you, build up to the conversation first. Like, "hey, I want to ask Du a question, but I don't want anything to be awkward between us." Don't just pop the Frage on him, because it might freak him out and he might lie to you. (again, if he did before)

I'm sorry if this didn't help much. =/ Mixed signals situations are always the hardest to deal with. If Du like, Du can read this: link
It's Guter Rat that I gave to MileySelena982 once about her situation, which is similar to yours in some ways.

Also, I think Du should try to find out Mehr information about him secretly. Like, if he likes another girl, find out who the girl is. (But, back to when he sagte that he likes someone, are Du positive that he sagte he likes another girl?) But, don't ask your crush anything through friends. It's way too indirect, and you're just gonna end up even Mehr confused. (Trust me on that one)

So, good luck!!! :D And tell me what happens!! :)

- Vanillamoon08 (a.k.a Natasha oder Tashie)
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Oh! Another reasons why a guy might lie to throw Du off is that he wants to see your reaction if he tells Du that he likes somebody else oder doesn't like you. Guys DO test girls sometimes. =/ This is including when they drop the "L" bomb on you, whether you're in a relationship oder not. (My crush did that to me before I liked him a couple of times)
vanillamoon08 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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