1. first, I want Du to tell me the worst, most utterly offensively way that Du can, about how Du felt about me earlier on that day. As best Du can, take your time, and don’t leave any hurtful little details out. 2. how much of that do Du still feel? 3. anything else Du wanna add about why Du were so mad? (emotional?)….anything?? 4. …k. I want Du to know that I understand just about everything Du were saying and that all makes perfect sense to me(except: blah, blah blah). I wanted to hear the way Du felt about it first, before I told Du how I feel. 5. First, I’ll say the strongest way I felt about the situation. 6. Secondly, now that I had time to think about it, I considered your view of it, and like I sagte before, I completely understand (Points: A, B, C, etc.) 7. How about you, do Du understand a little bit better how I saw things? 8. You know I never meant to (all the negative things she saw) 9. The rest should work its way out.
