Florrick prostitute, Amber Madison, is gegeben her own Guter Rat column to answer readers' Fragen about love, life, and sex.
03/03
Dear Amber,
I'm an 11 year-old girl. My Dad is a dentist and left my Mom a Jahr Vor for the receptionist at work. He now spends all his time with his girlfriend. I'm supposed to spend every weekend with them, but I feel guilty about my Mom because she's crying all of the time. What should I do?
Signed, Confused
Dear Confused,
Here's what Du shouldn't do: feel guilty about your parents' choices. Your Dad didn't have to leave his marriage. That was his decision, not yours. He could have chosen to stick it out and try to make it work. He just didn't. And your Mom can choose to get help. The only thing that Du need to do is to try to remember that none of it is your fault. Enjoy your time with your Dad. Enjoy your time with your Mom. Just remember it isn't your job to fix the problems they've created.
Dear Amber,
I'm starting to think that I'm doomed to fall for the wrong guys. Put me in a room full of ministers and I'll find the drummer. The latest time is at work. A really cute guy started working at the camera store that I manage. We've gone out a couple of times, but I'm starting to suspect that he might be stealing from the store. Certain items have just started to disappear. Should I talk to him and try to save the relationship oder just walk away?
Signed, Little Drummer's Girl
Dear Little Drummer's Girl,
Sounds like you've confused your Liebe life with your professional obligations. (Trust me, I've done that plenty.) If you're managing the store, Du can't just walk away from employee theft. You've got to find out if there's a thief on the payroll and then alert the owners. Then it's their job to decide whether oder not to bring in the police. The dating part is harder. Do Du really want to go out with a guy that Du don't trust? Maybe Du need to talk to a counselor to see if she can figure out why Du keep finding yourself with bad boys. It sounds like you're looking to break this cycle, but could just use some guidance in taking the first step.
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03/03
Dear Amber,
I'm an 11 year-old girl. My Dad is a dentist and left my Mom a Jahr Vor for the receptionist at work. He now spends all his time with his girlfriend. I'm supposed to spend every weekend with them, but I feel guilty about my Mom because she's crying all of the time. What should I do?
Signed, Confused
Dear Confused,
Here's what Du shouldn't do: feel guilty about your parents' choices. Your Dad didn't have to leave his marriage. That was his decision, not yours. He could have chosen to stick it out and try to make it work. He just didn't. And your Mom can choose to get help. The only thing that Du need to do is to try to remember that none of it is your fault. Enjoy your time with your Dad. Enjoy your time with your Mom. Just remember it isn't your job to fix the problems they've created.
Dear Amber,
I'm starting to think that I'm doomed to fall for the wrong guys. Put me in a room full of ministers and I'll find the drummer. The latest time is at work. A really cute guy started working at the camera store that I manage. We've gone out a couple of times, but I'm starting to suspect that he might be stealing from the store. Certain items have just started to disappear. Should I talk to him and try to save the relationship oder just walk away?
Signed, Little Drummer's Girl
Dear Little Drummer's Girl,
Sounds like you've confused your Liebe life with your professional obligations. (Trust me, I've done that plenty.) If you're managing the store, Du can't just walk away from employee theft. You've got to find out if there's a thief on the payroll and then alert the owners. Then it's their job to decide whether oder not to bring in the police. The dating part is harder. Do Du really want to go out with a guy that Du don't trust? Maybe Du need to talk to a counselor to see if she can figure out why Du keep finding yourself with bad boys. It sounds like you're looking to break this cycle, but could just use some guidance in taking the first step.
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