So, boys, do Du want to know if she likes ya oder not oder she has a crush on ya oder she loves ya oder not? If ya do, then read this. And it can clear out your confusion. And
Follow these steps to find out if the girl Du have your herz set on really likes you.
As a girl in Liebe myself, I can tell Du important things about other girls too.
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Be bold and initiate a short chat. This will help Du to learn those little things that will come in handy later because everyone loves knowing that someone actually listened to them and cared enough to remember the small details about them. Listen carefully and be attentive to the things she tells Du so that Du will have them for future reference. As Du talk, notice if she gives Du any signs, special words oder hints.
*All girls are different. Is she shy oder outgoing? Does she act like this around other guys? Look at her body language. Leaning in, uncrossed legs, nervous voice, and dilated pupils (especially), are all signs she likes you.
*A good sign is if she laughs at your stupid, boring jokes too. Hey Hey, don't use bad jokes to test oder else it might make Du look like a comedy dork!
*She may not be able to look directly at ya eyes. She might smile and laugh a lot cuz' she's worried about giving too much away.
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Watch for signs of flirting. If she's flirting, she may be difficult to read. Gregarious girls may flirt with guys who they consider to be just friends. Uninitiated, this general interaction can sometimes be misconstrued as a crush, so know how she acts around other guys.
*Be aware that some girls have no idea that they're flirting. In this case, she probably likes Du a great deal since her subconscious is letting her body language do the talking.
*Most girls don't like to be obvious. Girls fear rejection too.
*If Du fancy a girl, never make the mistake of "flirting around". If she sees Du putting your arm around another girl oder sees another girl hugging you, she will assume that she doesn't mean anything to Du and will stop trying.
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Check for Zufällig hugs, reserved mostly for you. Hugs can be a very openly and permissible affectionate way of getting closer to Du and touching Du without it necessarily compromising her stealthy flirting. In turn, Du can go along with it if Du want, oder just act busy like you're late for an appointment and need to rush off.
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Take notice if she "accidentally" bumps into Du Mehr often than what you'd consider the usual.
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Observe the way in which she looks at you. If she likes you, she will tend to either hold her gaze on Du for a long time oder pull away immediately the moment your eyes make contact with hers. Either of these responses could mean that she likes you. If she pulls away quickly, it often means she is nervous oder not ready to reveal her true intentions yet, but she still likes you. And if she holds the stare, and Du believe Du see responsiveness oder even Liebe in her eyes, then she is confident and she may make the first move.
*Of course, some girls might just be staring oder winding Du up, so don't think she loves Du and wants to get in touch with the real, inner you. Use the context to discern the motive.
Look at her friends. If Du see most of her Friends glancing back at Du and smiling oder giggling, this probably means that she has told her Friends about Du and they're "in the know". This can happen at any age, although mature girls and women Friends tend to behave in a slightly Mehr circumspect way, using glances and knowing smiles oder nods instead of giggles. In some cases, a friend may actually be bold enough to come and tell Du that her friend likes you.
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Look out for moments where Du can play "rescuing the damsel in distress". If you're outside and the girl Du like is nearby and starts loudly saying "I'm cold!", that's a subtle hint that she wants Du to give her your sweater. This is a very sweet gesture, especially if Du want to Zeigen the girl that Du like her. And sometimes a girl will pretend to be really bad at doing something, and say that she can't do it. That is your chance to offer some assistance; be aware that she will most likely be doing this on purpose just to see your reaction and hope that Du will help out.
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Smile at her. Girls tend to like guys who smile, and are happy. Use your natural smile; Du don't want to freak her out. If she smiles back politely, oder frowns and looks away, she may be uncomfortable oder disinterested. If she returns a soft oder big smile and continues to look at you, then it's likely that she's interested. However she reacts, it cannot hurt to keep smiling her way. Eventually she'll get the message that Du find her charming and she may feel able to open up Mehr oder at least to tell Du openly that she's either interested oder not.
*If she smiles then darts over to the crowd of her Friends and hides in the group, then she may be nervous and curious about whether Du know that she likes you.
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Watch her body language. Du can learn a lot about a girl Von observing her body language and it goes well beyond obvious flirting signs into unconscious signals of attraction. There are a lot of signs that will tell Du she's interested. For example, if a girl has her torso turned towards Du in an open manner, this means that she is confident talking with you. If she has a closed body position, namely crossed arms oder legs, she may be shy oder nervous to talk to Du oder she may simply be creating a barrier to ward Du off. Invest in a decent book on body language to help Du learn how to accurately read her.
*Watch for subtle signs in the girl's face––if her eyes are dilating, then she may really like you.
*Look at her lips. If she touches them constantly oder bites them, she's probably very interested in you. If her lip quivers slightly when Du look at her, Du can almost be sure she likes you.
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Notice the little things she does for you. If she's always there for Du when Du need help, even like when Du mention that you're really thirsty and she quickly offers Du a sip from her drink, she might like you. But don't assume that she's into Du only from one experience. Ask her occasionally for small things, like chewing gum oder a pen, and notice how she reacts. If she's always ready to offer Du something Du might need, go further and ask her to help Du with something else, like a school, college oder work problem. It shouldn't be something really easy to solve, but not too difficult either, as some girls might say that they don't know how to help Du with a Mehr challenging problem. If she's eager to help you, she probably likes you, although if Du use this approach too much oder choose tasks that seem too difficult, she may think you're lazy, testing her oder even a bit of a nuisance. Don't overdo it; Du don't want to risk her ceasing to like you.
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If Du decide that she does appear to like you, Bestätigen it Von having the courage to go and talk to her. Many girls feel too shy oder nervous about what your reaction might be to start a conversation with romantic undertones. Even if she seems like the most confident girl Du know, she may have had a bad experience in the past oder simply not be ready to approach Du yet but will be receptive if Du start the conversation first. For Mehr ideas, see How to ask a girl out.
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Finally, but importantly, avoid over-analyzing her behavior. Doing so may result in your becoming obsessed with simply "winning her over", rather than getting to know her as a person. Rather than investing tons of time in determining whether oder not she likes you, just take opportunities every now and then to spend time with her and her Friends (not excessively though, oder Du may appear to have no social life of your own). Basically, get to know her as a person first and foremost and maybe things can go from there later––starting off as a friend gives Du a chance to connect on a Mehr real level. Just make sure to make your intentions relatively clear (via subtle flirting), oder else Du may become permanently "friend-zoned".
*sigh* That was pretty long. If Du have read this long, I'm very thankful to you. I'm sure these will Du a lot.
If ya do discover that the girl likes, Du don't neglect her. Take care of her. Cause' it's very hard in this world to find someone who truly loves Du and cares about you. It's a free tip from me :)
Have a nice and loving day! ♥