Hello,
If a shy guy does the following he definitely have a crush on you:
1. Looks at Du when Du are not looking (looks away when Du look at him)
2. Doesn't talk to Du when with your friends
3. When trying to initiate converstaion, asks dead end Fragen -
e.g "Did Du do your homework?" instead of "How did Du get on with your homework?"
4. Ignores Du -
This is the most misinterpereted. If he completely ignores Du in a public setting he likes you.
If he converses with Du and politly excuses himself in a hurry with no real reason he doesn't like you.
5. If he puts Du on the spot when conversing with his Friends he likes you.
6. If Du flirt with each other via text/ msn etc frequently and Du agree to go on a datum and he suddenly stops texting/msn'ing he is too shy/scared oder broke. He still likes Du but will be embaressed from then on.
7. If he flirts with Du via eye contact, Du approach him and he says very little but has no intention of ending the converstation, he likes you.
8. If he has known Du for a long period of time and is now randomly initiating conversation with Du when it is not required (ie. group work in school etc), he likes you.
9. If Du casually mention your boyfriend and he takes longer than usual to reply oder add on to the conversation, he likes you.
10. If Du think Du are polar opposites and he keeps initiating conversation with you, he likes you.
11. If he acts different towards Du than anybody else, even guys lol, he likes you.
How do Du let him know to make a move:
1. Give a subtle/cheeky smile and a quick/little wave - if he doesn't act on it he is definitely not interested
2. Ask of his future plans (ie. for the weekend etc) and when he is free. If he responds using the word "nothing", he is interested. All Du have to say is "me too" with an awkward silence after, he should ask Du out.
3. Initiate conversation when no other Friends are around. With no pressure he should talk freely. A simple "Hey. It's freezing/roasting today isn't it?" should do the trick.
Du should also know:
1. Shy guys don't reject girls harshly, we would rather make up a polite excuse as to why we would not go out with her.
So to conclude, I hople this helps girls that are unsure about us. The best Guter Rat I can give is approach us when there are no peers around.
C ya.