Lately on Fanpop, I've been noticing a lot of people wondering if they are gay oder bisexual, in particular. They ask if certain behaviors oder feelings they have make them gay oder bi.
But really, asking other people to tell Du whether oder not Du are gay oder straight is nearly impossible. They can't be inside your head and go through what Du do every day. It's up to Du to figure that out on your own!
If that leaves Du feeling overwhelmed, don't panic! Sexuality is an exciting and often confusing journey, only to be uncovered Von you! If I've learned anything from going through years feeling straight, gay, bi, and even asexual it's this:
1. You cannot choose who Du are. Don't let anyone convince Du that Du should change.
2. Your sexual orientation can change over time, but this is never under your control.
3. Don't let anyone put a label on Du and tell Du who Du are! Only Du know how Du feel!
4. Don't feel obligated to pick a side, whether straight, gay, bisexual, oder anything else.
5. Your sexual orientation is often not clear. If it were, most people would be able to say without a doubt that they are gay oder straight. Many struggle with it for years oder even their whole lives.
So basically, what I'm saying is that confusion about sexuality is normal and perfectly okay. Most of us are sexual beings, and harmless experimentation can help us discover who we are.
And some of us don't want to be labeled oder are struggling with our sexual identity. This is fine, too! As teenagers (I'm speaking for most people on this site, Von no means all), we may want to be accepted into a group. Don't feel pressured to pick a side just for that purpose!
I hope this Artikel has helped Du discover something about yoruself. Be happy with who Du are whether you're gay, straight, bisexual, transgender, intersex, asexual, oder anything else!
But really, asking other people to tell Du whether oder not Du are gay oder straight is nearly impossible. They can't be inside your head and go through what Du do every day. It's up to Du to figure that out on your own!
If that leaves Du feeling overwhelmed, don't panic! Sexuality is an exciting and often confusing journey, only to be uncovered Von you! If I've learned anything from going through years feeling straight, gay, bi, and even asexual it's this:
1. You cannot choose who Du are. Don't let anyone convince Du that Du should change.
2. Your sexual orientation can change over time, but this is never under your control.
3. Don't let anyone put a label on Du and tell Du who Du are! Only Du know how Du feel!
4. Don't feel obligated to pick a side, whether straight, gay, bisexual, oder anything else.
5. Your sexual orientation is often not clear. If it were, most people would be able to say without a doubt that they are gay oder straight. Many struggle with it for years oder even their whole lives.
So basically, what I'm saying is that confusion about sexuality is normal and perfectly okay. Most of us are sexual beings, and harmless experimentation can help us discover who we are.
And some of us don't want to be labeled oder are struggling with our sexual identity. This is fine, too! As teenagers (I'm speaking for most people on this site, Von no means all), we may want to be accepted into a group. Don't feel pressured to pick a side just for that purpose!
I hope this Artikel has helped Du discover something about yoruself. Be happy with who Du are whether you're gay, straight, bisexual, transgender, intersex, asexual, oder anything else!