HOW DO I REACT WHEN MY GF SAYS SHES STRAIGHT!?!?!?!

ok so me and my girlfriend have been on and off for sorta the past two yrs. she says bc shes only in Liebe with one girl it makes her straight not bi. what do u think... is she straight oder bi? and how should i react when she says this?
 Hills1021 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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Ninja-Kitten said:
Well Du might be the one exception to her normally straight preferences, oder she might be slightly bisexual.

If she's saying it in a way that means she doesn't like Du anymore, I would try to resolve the problem either Von talking about it oder breaking up with her if that's the only way.

But if she's saying it in a way that shows she's feeling vulnerable and scared, try and comfort her and help her through it.
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and if she says she still loves me?
Hills1021 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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ask in what way she loves you. as a friend oder a stronger Liebe if that makes sense. she might want something new, oder maybe she is just confused. I personally think the fact that she loves Du means she is bi, Liebe takes time no matter who Du are dating, and maybe Du can make her realize that, because loving one girl doesn't make someone (girl) a lesbian either. I hope that makes sense
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Xeginy said:
I can see how this would be confusing. But at the end of the day, your girlfriend defines her own sexuality, on her own terms. She may have sagte that because she is in Liebe with Du (as she said) but feels very little attraction to any other women. It's not uncommon.

As to how Du react...let her define her own sexuality, in her own words. It's not for you, oder anyone else, to do that for her.
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writer67 said:
Liebe is weird, it tests us in oh so many ways, Du have all this want to be happy with an equal,and your herz seems to be on a string.allow her to go if Du trully Liebe her,as if Du hold her to tight Du may hurt Mehr than yourself. be happy Du can talk,even if its trivial,best to be freinds for ever, than someone Du have to walk away from,it hurts,for your herz is good, and an equal deserves an equal.chin up, smile Du are a good person,just Mehr romantic than others, good luck in your endeavours;-]

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