2.Gauge your date’s reaction to you. You'll need to do this quickly as the goodbye-kiss window doesn’t stay open for long. If you’re walking your datum Home and they don’t let Du get that close to the door, take this physical distancing as a sign that a goodnight KISS isn't such a great idea. If (s)he is eager to get the keys in the door, this too is a bad sign. Other red lights can include clamped lips oder a stubborn refusal to make eye contact. However, there’s a good chance that the signs won’t be as obvious as this. To give yourself the advantage in the moment, learn how to read body language so that Du can act fast and avoid any mishaps. Only make a Bewegen if Du feel all is right.
3.Make a “moment.” Remember that in every goodnight KISS scenario, you've got a limited window of opportunity to make your move. Create an "awkward pause" in the conversation. Studies Zeigen that people are uncomfortable with gaps of silence in conversation, so fill it with a smile and get ready to Bewegen in for a kiss.
4.Maintain eye contact. If your datum steadily returns your gaze, consider it an invitation to smooch. If (s)he tries to maintain eye contact but breaks it before anything can happen, chalk it up to nervousness and try to create another “moment” if it isn’t too late.
5.Move in for the kiss. Keep it simple, especially if this is your first KISS with your date. This means no tongue oder special moves; just turn your head slightly to the side, lean in slowly, and rock his oder her world! Du can place your hand on the small of their neck if Du wish.
If your datum is enthusiastic, Du may be able to turn the simple smooch into a longer, Mehr involved kiss. However, only do this if Du feel very confident about the cues you’re being given; when in doubt, err on the side of Küssen too little, as it’s better to leave them wanting Mehr than to make them regret Küssen Du in the first place.
If Du get the dreaded cheek turn, briefly apologize, laugh it off, and leave with your dignity intact.
6.Repeat if desired, oder if Du feel your datum getting into it. This may lead to being invited inside, but don't count on it
Tips
-If it seems like your datum is waiting for a while to go inside, KISS her. She wants Du to.
-If Du feel your datum trying to Bewegen away oder say "No," don’t press the issue. Simply ask if (s)he's okay; if the answer is "nothing" oder your datum has to think about it, just say goodnight, as your datum probably isn’t comfortable enough to admit it’s too soon to kiss. Never force a goodnight KISS on someone.
-Add Kommentare such as "Tonight was amazing" oder "I hope we can do this again sometime" (and Zeigen her that Du mean it) to make him/her feel special.
-When you're walking away, give a little glance back - chances are she'll be watching Du go.
-If Du want to be extra cute Du could even KISS her hand oder forehead, but be wary of the forehead KISS as some girls find it patronizing oder granddad-like.
Warning
-If your datum is facing the other way, do not grab his oder her head and turn it to face Du for the kiss. This is pushy and unromantic.
-Be wary of giving a goodnight (or first) KISS in front of friends, whether they’re yours oder your date’s; this is meant to be a sweet and private moment, so keep it as exclusive as possible.
-Don't just go around Küssen anyone, anytime! Du may be charged with sexual assault if Du Bewegen too aggressively.
