Hello there! :) As I sagte in the title, this is moslty directed towards boys. I've just witnessed a lot of Du being intolerable jerks, (not all of you, just most of the guys where I live) and I'd like to share my knowledge. SO JUST STOP RIGHT THERE and let Hazel give Du some advice. :)
1. When Du introduce her to your friends, introduce her AS YOUR GIRLFRIEND.
Don't just say- "Oh, this is Penelope. Anyway..." Nonono, rather- "Hey guys, this is my girlfriend, Penelope. I Liebe her, so be nice." When Du introduce her to your friends, it shows her that she will probably be around for a while, which makes her feel special.
2. (If at school) communicate with her silently from across the room.
Whether it's just a smile, wink, oder anything of those sorts, it will brighten her day. Seeing the boy she oves smiling warmly at her will make her tummy tingle.
3. BE HER BEST FRIEND.
This is extremely important, hence the capital letters. When Du are in a relationship, being Liebhaber seems amazing, right? The warm feeling Du always get when Du two kiss, hug, share intimate moments, ect. But after a while, if all Du two are is lovers, it begins to get old, oder boring. There ARE times in relationships when Du randomly don't Liebe your partner as much as Du normally do. During those times, if Du have a friendship with your partner, Du will have something left. Ever seen couples who are married at a very old age when they are all wrinkly and saggy and a bit gross? They had that best friendship. If Du are JUST lovers, Du won't want to be Liebhaber when you're all saggy.
Does this make sense? Laugh with her. Share inside jokes with her. Play games with her. Go out for coffee and just talk about your day. A best friendship for me is looking at someone from across the room and being able to have silent conversations with just facial expressions. She will Liebe being your best friend.
4. Have "a song" oder "a food" oder "a show".
This also goes with being best friends. There is this boy that I used to like- Our Song was "If Du Wanted A Song Written About You, All Du Had To Do Was Ask" Von Mayday Parade. (We weren't dating, but Du get the point.) If Du two had a Zeigen and it was... "The Office" for example, every time a new episode came on, Du two will make some popcorn, scurry to the TV, and snuggle up & watch, happy as can be. All the while, Du are eating... String cheese, which is "your food". Are Du getting the point?
5. Make her feel safe, but let her make her own choices.
Girls Liebe the feeling of being safe, sicher in their boy's arms, being kissed on the forehead, just being protected. But Du can't be TOO protective, because she'll feel restrained and powerless. Example- if some guy is flirting with your girl, kick his ass! But don't make her stop talking to her guy friends. It is a bit frustrating when the boyfriend is overly protective.
6. Be sweet to her, but Du must also be firm.
This reminds me of a South Park episode- Satan loved Saddam Hussein AND this guy named Chris. He loved how Chris was sweet to him, but he was just TOO sweet. Satan hated how Saddam was an asshole, but Saddam was was also firm and it was attractive to Satan.
(Translation) xD
Be very sweet and nice to your girlfriend. She should be a princess to you. But at the same time, if she lies to Du oder does something that upsets you, (flirts with another guy, cheats, stays out too late) Du have to be firm and scold her. Set boundries. Every girl wants a sweet guy, but if Du don't set boundries, she may feel free to continue to do some bad things. Don't be so firm that she is scared of you, just enough that she understands that Du care and Du are worried.
That's it for now. :) I'll make another one later! <3 See Du all.
-Hazel
1. When Du introduce her to your friends, introduce her AS YOUR GIRLFRIEND.
Don't just say- "Oh, this is Penelope. Anyway..." Nonono, rather- "Hey guys, this is my girlfriend, Penelope. I Liebe her, so be nice." When Du introduce her to your friends, it shows her that she will probably be around for a while, which makes her feel special.
2. (If at school) communicate with her silently from across the room.
Whether it's just a smile, wink, oder anything of those sorts, it will brighten her day. Seeing the boy she oves smiling warmly at her will make her tummy tingle.
3. BE HER BEST FRIEND.
This is extremely important, hence the capital letters. When Du are in a relationship, being Liebhaber seems amazing, right? The warm feeling Du always get when Du two kiss, hug, share intimate moments, ect. But after a while, if all Du two are is lovers, it begins to get old, oder boring. There ARE times in relationships when Du randomly don't Liebe your partner as much as Du normally do. During those times, if Du have a friendship with your partner, Du will have something left. Ever seen couples who are married at a very old age when they are all wrinkly and saggy and a bit gross? They had that best friendship. If Du are JUST lovers, Du won't want to be Liebhaber when you're all saggy.
Does this make sense? Laugh with her. Share inside jokes with her. Play games with her. Go out for coffee and just talk about your day. A best friendship for me is looking at someone from across the room and being able to have silent conversations with just facial expressions. She will Liebe being your best friend.
4. Have "a song" oder "a food" oder "a show".
This also goes with being best friends. There is this boy that I used to like- Our Song was "If Du Wanted A Song Written About You, All Du Had To Do Was Ask" Von Mayday Parade. (We weren't dating, but Du get the point.) If Du two had a Zeigen and it was... "The Office" for example, every time a new episode came on, Du two will make some popcorn, scurry to the TV, and snuggle up & watch, happy as can be. All the while, Du are eating... String cheese, which is "your food". Are Du getting the point?
5. Make her feel safe, but let her make her own choices.
Girls Liebe the feeling of being safe, sicher in their boy's arms, being kissed on the forehead, just being protected. But Du can't be TOO protective, because she'll feel restrained and powerless. Example- if some guy is flirting with your girl, kick his ass! But don't make her stop talking to her guy friends. It is a bit frustrating when the boyfriend is overly protective.
6. Be sweet to her, but Du must also be firm.
This reminds me of a South Park episode- Satan loved Saddam Hussein AND this guy named Chris. He loved how Chris was sweet to him, but he was just TOO sweet. Satan hated how Saddam was an asshole, but Saddam was was also firm and it was attractive to Satan.
(Translation) xD
Be very sweet and nice to your girlfriend. She should be a princess to you. But at the same time, if she lies to Du oder does something that upsets you, (flirts with another guy, cheats, stays out too late) Du have to be firm and scold her. Set boundries. Every girl wants a sweet guy, but if Du don't set boundries, she may feel free to continue to do some bad things. Don't be so firm that she is scared of you, just enough that she understands that Du care and Du are worried.
That's it for now. :) I'll make another one later! <3 See Du all.
-Hazel
I'm a girl and I have a crush on this guy. I'm in school 5th grade. Here's how it works. Make sure Du have post-its. When she oder he is not looking grab the post it and pit your number on it. Don't put your name on it! Put it in his oder her desk. Then when they see it make sure they don't know its you. Say that it is your friend. (Yes Du have to lie.) Tell him oder her not to call Du just say to text. That is better off. If your name is in your voicemail change it. When he texts Du say that is your friend. When you're ready ask him oder her out. If they say no say how about some other time. Then continue from there. If they say yes then Du should tell them who it really is. This happened to me and it worked he is dating someone else but I didn't ask him out yet. I'm have a plan. I hoped this helped!