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Please help a christian who needs it :'(

I have never told anyone this, not my parents, not my friends, (you'll see why) nor my siblings.

I was a little kid, I had switched schools, from 1st Grade, to 2nd, I had found new Friends to accompany my GT classes, I had found about 5 Friends when I got there (and I was really shy, so I was proud with myself :) ) Im not telling the names so if they read this they wont know... They seemed very nice at the beginning snd I was beginning to know Mehr about them, but as that happened, I found that they weren't actually very nice, they cussed constantly, (it started in about 3rd Grade), they talked about Mehr disgusting things like sex, private parts, etc. And I didn't want to be their Friends anymore, but I couldn't just stop! I was stuck with them in the class! So I stayed "friends", and the Mehr they grew with me, the less I liked them. Until I REALLY hated them, they cussed at their own classmates, ME, and the teacher sometimes with the teacher noticing. One of my "friends" even watched porn, I was shocked when I figured out they did, they also sagte THEY were Christians, and when I asked them how, they said, "OH, I have like 5 (bleeping) bibles in my house!" It was obvious they didn't know what being a true Christian was :'( I felt sad. Please tell me what to do! Even my dad went through something like this, but in the streets! If Du guys could help me through middle school, that would be a huge help, i'm sorry if I wasted your time with this huge paragraph ;(
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Du did not waste my time & I am glad Du ask... (My answer actually took several attempts through computers problems, etc, but I wanted Du to get it, to see Du can be loved and have Friends who ARE what Du need and sometimes we have to wait. God is all we really need and He can be a friend. Now ask Him. :)
Sinna_Hime_chan posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
 DannyGassy posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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PucksLady said:
Hey now don't worry about the large paragraph!

Wow, this is a big problem! I've never had to deal with this, thank God, but I do have "friends" who are terrible people. The best way to deal with this, that I can think of, is to just ignore them. They are terrible people, and they do not know what it means to be a true Christian. I wouldn't say anything, though, because if Du do, they might say that you're shoving your "religion" down their throats (I have had experience with that).

However, if they start bad-mouthing Christianity, Du do need to stand up for what Du believe in. Don't be afraid to do that! Call on Christ as your protecter and ask Him to give Du the right words to say.

I hope I helped, and feel free to message me if Du need anything. :)
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coriann said:
wow Danny, im so sorry, i understand the pain Du must feel, Danny, i was a Christian once, and before Du start judging me, just listen...
I went through the same thing, and I wondered, where on earth are all the other Christians? I began to feel lonely, I didn't have such a good ending, but Du can!

I know this might seem hard for you, and it must make Du angry to think that your friend calls him/herself a Christian,
but Danny, Du need to take a deep breath and put all of this aside, look inside yourself, Du know who Du are but Du also know that Du have to stay in school.

Du stay Friends with them, Du need to open up your mind to these people, don't judge them, try to understand why they do the things they do, then, maybe if Du can understand them, Du will not feel so upset with them anymore. Get along with them because in a dangerous place like school, Du need to have friends, Du need to have people who have your back,

Du may not understand these friends, im not saying Du have to be best Friends with them, but, the bible says to Liebe your enemy and pray for those who persecute you, judge not and Du shall not be judged.
Du know who Du are, that's the most important thing, and there are plenty of people out there that feel the same way as Du and Du will find them eventually! :D and you'll be really happy, in the mean time hang in there baby, LOL i don't want Du to end up like me

i hope this was good advice! ^ ^
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Coriann - Du know I Liebe ya bunches Hunny, but if Du have turned AWAY from God, then why are Du even answering someone's Frage HERE. I can't judge Du to even ask Du why Du are here, though, in truth I wonder, as this is a "Christianity" Club & Du say Du aren't... but people come here to hear from Christians and not non-Christians. They could go anywhere else for that Guter Rat and I hope Du understand what I am trying to say isn't saying Du have nothing good to offer, I am just wondering why Du answer f they are ASKINg oder needing something else?
Sinna_Hime_chan posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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Du have A LOT of good to offer and say some wonderful things~ I Liebe you... and it is NOT an end for Du Baby Gurl, like Du said, it is a beginning and never ever too late while Du have breath I hope sooner than later Du can find your way back to God because Du are precious.
Sinna_Hime_chan posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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:) thx Sin, lol, Du know i will, not like i can stay away from y'all ;)
coriann posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
Sinna_Hime_chan said:
Just because someone says they are a Christian doesn't mean they are & just because a Christian isn't perfect oder has faults -doesn't mean they aren't, people can be false as Du saw very clearly with your eyes about your Friends - now look at yourself.

God brings us up to learn. All throughout the Bible were many trials, tribulations, choices & lessons to help us. Personally I think Du were wrong to stay Friends with those classmates. To me that shows Du were not strong. I must have super hero strength then for the choices I have faced, (not really) because even being able to make a good choice here oder there, I am NOT the one who is strong- GOD IS; it is He who is in me & God who enables that ability. I still get very sad, I still falter. My point is life isn't about others (though we can learn from watching them), it is about trying to make better & better decisions ourselves & about growing.

As a Christian it is supposed to be about faith & not caring about worldly issues oder about what anyone else is doing oder thinking but caring about what God thinks & about how we feel about it with the Holy Spirit inside as our compass. We are gegeben guidance and a conscience. These "lofty" ideals really are not unabtainable oder confusing..... God makes things Mehr simple than for people without Him.

The simple thing here is seeing that Du needed people of "positive" support, who lift Du in positive ways & directions... Friends who "relate" to you, in actions, heart, & spirit because it makes a WORLD of difference.

This is your personal journey.
This is also how God hones us and weeds us out.
Du will have difficult decisions throughout your life. If Du feel Du lack something- PRAY for it. Anything asked in Jesus name will be gegeben according to His will. ASK for strength & (being careful what Du ask for) ASK for God to surround Du with the positive people HE wants for Du in your life.

Don't feel bad for letting them go.
Maybe they have never heard anyone tell them, "I am sorry, we're friends, but I don't think this is how I wanted things to be for me oder imagined them-it hurt me the way Du acted because it made me feel bad. It just is not what I need to be around because that isn't what I want to do. Sorry." and if they are jerks they are gonna act like jerks. Life gets hard. This is all about learning so that Du can do better and deal better and please God and then be blessed and pleased yourself Von the blessings of seeking Him. Because Du care -you will see God cares very much too. He always cares about you. He will always help Du (*esp when Du seek Him oder ask).

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 [b]Just because someone says they are a Christian doesn't mean they are[/b] & [b]just because a Christian isn't perfect oder has faults -doesn't mean they aren't[/b], people can be false as Du saw very clearly with your eyes about your Friends - [b]now look at yourself[/b]. [b]God brings us up to learn[/b]. All throughout the Bible were many trials, tribulations, choices & lessons to help us. Personally I think Du were wrong to stay Friends with those classmates. To me that shows Du were not strong. I must have super hero strength then for the choices I have faced, (not really) because even being able to make a good choice here oder there, I am NOT the one who is strong- GOD IS; it is He who is in me & God who enables that ability. I still get very sad, I still falter. My point is life isn't about others (though we can learn from watching them), it is about trying to make better & better decisions ourselves & about growing. As a Christian it is supposed to be about faith & not caring about worldly issues oder about what anyone else is doing oder thinking but caring about what God thinks & about how we feel about it with the Holy Spirit inside as our compass. We are gegeben guidance and a conscience. These "lofty" ideals really are not unabtainable oder confusing..... God makes things Mehr simple than for people without Him. The simple thing here is seeing that Du needed people of "positive" support, who lift Du in positive ways & directions... Friends who "relate" to you, in actions, heart, & spirit because it makes a WORLD of difference. This is your personal journey. This is also how God hones us and weeds us out. Du will have difficult decisions throughout your life. If Du feel Du lack something- PRAY for it. Anything asked in Jesus name will be gegeben according to His will. ASK for strength & (being careful what Du ask for) ASK for God to surround Du with the positive people HE wants for Du in your life. Don't feel bad for letting them go. Maybe they have never heard anyone tell them, "I am sorry, we're friends, but I don't think this is how I wanted things to be for me oder imagined them-it hurt me the way Du acted because it made me feel bad. It just is not what I need to be around because that isn't what I want to do. Sorry." and if they are jerks they are gonna act like jerks. Life gets hard. This is all about learning so that Du can do better and deal better and please God and then be blessed and pleased yourself Von the blessings of seeking Him. Because Du care -you will see God cares very much too. He always cares about you. He will always help Du (*esp when Du seek Him oder ask). [url=http://www.wikihow.com/Decide-if-Your-Friend-is-a-True-Friend]Real/True Friend oder Not?[/url]
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...and what Coriann said, about looking at your Friends and trying to understand where they are at too- don't burn your bridge oder be too harsh oder judgemental, don't be ugly to them, but people do grow apart and Du do not have to sit in the sitz of the scoffer nor stand in the path of the sinner to Liebe your enemies and bless those that curse you. Du can be a postive example for them, but don't let "them" drag "you" down ;)
Sinna_Hime_chan posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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Thanks, your answer really helped :')
DannyGassy posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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d'awe! look Du got me blushin! ^ ^ thx Sin, im glad to hear somebody actually appreciates all the stuff i post! Du know i really put a lot of time into some of my posts, like the one on gays going to heaven, i spent all morning researching for that, no it was fun really, i was actually bored out of my mind so again thx a lot and i really like Du too! i enjoy posting with you! ^ ^
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natalierg said:
Don't worry about the paragraph, it's not even that big and Schreiben helps Du vent. Life can get tough and bumpy sometimes but it's important to never stray from God. Du should leave those "friends" because even though it's hard it's better to have no Friends than "friends" who bring Du down in your faith and just in general. Du should look into a thing called Lift Camp. It is AMAZING and brings Du soooooo much closer to God.
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MineTurtle5 said:
Those people who call themselves Christians, and yet live in sin, are called 'lukewarm'. And that's very dangerous.
God says in Revelation 3:16 that he will spit the lukewarm Christians out of his mouth.
Also, those lukewarm Christians who are doing just enough, get just enough of the Lord to get by, risk missing Him altogether.

If Du haven't already talked to them about what they're doing is wrong, do that. If they still ignore you, pray for them, if Du haven't started already
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