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WWJD? I don't know....

I've got a dilemma between two friends.
My Friends (we'll say Ni and Al, just for safety) don't like each other. Our third period class is when we're all stuck together and I have to be the peacemaker but it's simply not working. They glare at each other constantly.
Once I left the room for ten Sekunden and when I came back, they were glaring even harder.
Afterwards, Ni told me that she picked up a pen from the floor and Al stahl, stola it, saying she needed to draw. Ni got mad and told her to give the pen back. Al got even madder and promptly threw the pen across the room.
And this all happened when I left for ten seconds.
I try to work out their differences. But Ni wants comfort and wants to talk to me so I talk to her. Therefore, Al gets mad and gives me the silent treatment the rest of the day, fuming.
Al has been a light switch the past two weeks. One Tag she'll be mad and the Weiter morning she acts like nothing happened. Then when we hit third period, she gets mad again because of Ni.
I ask her why she's mad at me and she says she's not mad. Then she ignores me. She won't answer any Frage I ask her about her and Ni and when I press on, she looks ready to slap me.
Ni thinks she's rude and Al thinks Ni is boring oder something.
I need help. I've been praying to God and wondering what would Jesus do?
What do Du think Jesus would do???? I'll persist in my prayers but I would like to know your thoughts :)
Thanks! God bless!!
Peace out.
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dreamfields said:
Well, it sounds like something has been going on between them for awhile.
1. Keep Praying for them
2. Don't let them put Du in the middle. Explain that Du are Friends with each of them.
3. Ask them not to talk negatively about the other to you.
4. If they keep complaining, Du may ask them what they could do to make the situation better. Explain to them that all of us can only control what we do. We cannot force others to change.
In everything Du say, do it calmly and with love.
5. The best Du can do is set an example. I wish Du success, it's hard being in this type of situation.
Not to be sexist, but this seems to be Mehr common with females than males. I say this after years of listening to women talk about working with a group of women.
The key word I would give Du is Love.
God Bless
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Thanks :) yeah, it happens Mehr with females. My friend told me this: Girls and drama are like dynamite and a match. Can't have one without the other. Thanks for Du help :)
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