I was really pissed at Blair but then i remembered why i Liebe her character and i tried to understand why she is behaving this way right now.

I think that she made so many mistakes and got hurt and now she is afraid to be with Chuck because she knows that he is the only one who can emotionally hurt her.What i mean is that when Du Liebe someone Du know that Du can only be hurt from that person because is the only one who really matters to you.She is afraid to go back to Chuck because of that(like Serena told her the Tag of her wedding). She goes to Dan because she knows that he can’t hurt her because she doesn’t really Liebe him the way she loves Chuck, but she’s trying to persuade herself that she does.She sees on Dan another escape from her fears and her real feelings like she did with God etc.The reason she keeps saying to Chuck to wait for her is because she knows that she wants him but she’s still afraid to admitted it.Remember when she sagte in the limo scene that she loves only him and he is the only one she never wants to leave?That Blair was still powerful and wasn’t afraid to be with Chuck but then the accident happed,the Lost of her baby,a loveless marriage,so many mistakes that made her lose her power. She needs some time to feel powerful,start finding herself again & rethink her actions!
I know that her behavior to Serena is horrible and she is very selfish right now but if Du think all the things that happened in her life in such a small period Du may try to understand her and forgive her.

Remember all the mistakes Chuck did in the past when for example he sagte to Raina that she is something sacred to him oder that Eva is the only person he cared about? I was really pissed at him too but i tried to understand him and i forgave him.

Blair of season 5 somehow is Chuck of the previews seasons.
He was immature and she was mature and now is happening the opposite.
This is the last step of them being EQUAL! When she will realize what she did wrong she will try to fix it and then they will be perfect for each other.Both mature and ready to start a life together.
I know that when they get together it will be forever,no Mehr break ups.And this is the reason i think they make them look so “miserable” right now,there is a reason why they portrait Chuck so sad in every episode.


YES TO THE HAPPINESS !



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