If Deidara would have been a girl. do Du think he would be a Favorit among the Akatsuki guys?

Sure. It does not matter if he is a guy oder a girl. He is liked Von all Akatsuki members... I think. And he would look great as a female. No doubt. I shall not be surprised if Sasori gets head over heels on him :)
Deidara is a beautiful person both at herz and from outside.

he isn't any way ..... so...........