Suicide

Hey I empathize with Du a bit on this topic. I don't feel Du are wrong but I also dont feel Du are necessarily right either.

Firstly, I would like to say NO one is required to reach out and help people if they don't know how to and if they aren't directly approached. Yes if someone comes up to you, then Du SHOULD try your best, but also if they start Schauspielen entitled to your ear, that too is a problem and Du should try to establish boundaries.

However, in the sense Du are mentioning - like the FB posts - that is not really anything anyone is obliged to reply to. If Du can't handle it, it doesn't matter how much experience you've had with the matter oder anything. Du don't have to share your experience. If Du can help and Du genuinely want to help and no one else is coming to their aid, then I would go regardless of if I did oder didn't genuinely care since honestly, as people sagte above, while some MIGHT be for attention, it really might be a genuine final call for help.

It may seem dramatic oder like some exotic fancy Zeigen for attention, but some people are desperate and do need it. Plus, some people are quiet depressive, others are actually very vocal about it. Even if they weren't going to do it but were extremely contemplating it, it is a concern that has to be taken seriously.


With that being sagte though, I do disagree with necessarily saying adults should be able to handle it themselves. Maybe it is the me that had to take care of my parent's mental health excessively and the amount of shitty adults I've had in my childhood, but adults are humans just like everyone else. Yes, they should be Mehr mature, but they have issues, stresses, depression, anxiety, and severe mental health issues like any kid oder teenager.

Major Depression isn't a mood and emotion that can just be 'handled' oder figured out, and Im sure that is something Du probably understand and know personally. Child, teen, oder adult, it is something that needs to be treated with a lot of care, support, and treatment to recover and honestly, I would much rather have adults breaking that illusion that life is easy, safe, and that they have everything together "like adults should" than I would to find out they killed themselves because they wanted to be "adult like".

I believe everyone has a right and shouldn't be judged (in most cases) for trying to reach out for help especially around being suicidal and depressed if they are genuine.

I see where Du coming from and yeah I have the same issue sometimes on what to say to people when their feeling sad oder depressed. I actually have helped some Friends in the past so are doing a lot better now and some continued to talk about them being depressed a social media so I know it can be hard seeing that. Yes as adults we should a lot Mehr mature when it comes to posting stuff on social like how Du mentioned and we should be able to know a least how to deal with emotions of course not everyone personis perfect and we all grow over the years and no your not wrong to think that way. If Du have a kid Du wouldn't want them see things like that and sometimes when Du already did your part in the friendship it's best just not to keep helping cause the person already made the decision not to take your Guter Rat in the end it's there choose either continue Schauspielen the same after they gotten advice. I hope this is very helpful and what your looking Mehr but am glad to hear people are wanting to help those that are in need of help.^^

Sometimes people really don't have anyone to lean on during their darkest times, so such posts online are like their last call for help in hopes that someone will care.
The ones who are doing it for attention only usually don't even want to hang out as much but just gain sympathy and Kommentare as a form of approval that people care about them. It's also a form of problem, but not as heavy as when the person just needs somebody to wipe away the dark thoughts, because in that moment they feel like they are truly alone.