Christian Grey. He doesn't know the meaning of no and commits rape, right?
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if it's consensual,it's not rape.He's a dominant,not a rapist.It's a consensual agreement between him and his submissives(and Ana),they know what they agree to beforehand
I read 50 Shades, let me just say it's probably the worst example of BDSM. BDSM usually happens between peoples who've known each other for a long time and have complete trust in each other...not between two strangers who met in a bar.
^ That's not the part that bothers me. Have sex with whoever Du want. It's just a misrepresentation of BDSM bc Grey doesn't respect boundaries and is controlling and dominant outside of the bedroom, too. It's fucked up, man.
Exactly how I feel. Have sex with who Du want have it how Du want just make sure Du have consent. And the Minute a person say stop oder decides they don't want to go through with the sex then it's no longer consensual. And I'm 99% Ana asked him to stop. I know a friend of a friend who's into BDSM and they have sagte that that's not how BDSM works...they specifically sagte that if it gets to intense and if the person wants to stop, they stop.
^ Exactlyyyy. My friend formed a safe, sicher BDSM club at school in protest of 50 Shades and I learned a ton from him and his partner. 50 Shades has literally nothing to do w safe, sicher BDSM ugh
