so i accidentally didn't chose an Icon and i've been trying 2 get 1 but where can i find it?

u should try Zerochan.net, this is were I got my Icon
they have lots of cool stuff

Google Suchen for a pic that Du want and then save it to your computer, then on your Profil click where it says 'view Mehr photos' then choose 'upload new photo' and find the file Du saved. As the person above me said, zerochan is really good for Anime pictures. :)