If I were Bella, I would agree to Edward proposing, the FIRST time instead of all that "I'm only 18, and I'm afraid of Renee" crap.
I would NOT let Jacob KISS me, as soon as Jake sagte he loved me, I would tell him, I don't Liebe him as anything Mehr than a friend and get the hell out of there and if he grabbed me, I'd say, "Jake, don't if Du really care about me, don't."
I would have also asked Edward to change me on the honeymoon- I mean, a few days I would be in pain but it would be alright, cause Edward could teke me away from the house when the humans came and I could get a start on the veggie diet.