i would datum the person which I like. It is no matter which element the person bends. It doesn't determine what a person is like. I don't prefer any element. That is my opinion. a human is a human.
well... i think it depends on who Du are. if Du were closest to a feuer bender for example (on the inside that is), maybe Du should be with a water bender to even each other out. of course, i don't think 2 non-opposite elements wouldn't work together, it's just my opinion that two of the same isn't the best combination.
I would datum a guy who I thought would care about me I think I would datum zuko because he is a feuer bender ( not the reason why) and he is sort of a trying to be peace full person but also cause he. HOT!!!!!!! That is all
if anything i would chose a water bender. they are healers, they have nice place to live and i would not have to deal with the feuer nation as much as the earth benders had to