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I'm kind of in a sticky situation. Advice?

Well, I already thought of what I want to do when I got older, and I plan to Bewegen to Texas, and pursue my dream to become a voice actress, and also meet my best friend. I also plan on going to Japan for a year.

However, my boyfriend has other plans for us. He's planning to stay at his house while his mom (who shares my name, coincidentally enough) and grandmother Bewegen out, and work at the local GameStop where he lives.

I Liebe his plan and all, but it might get in the way of what I plan to do.

So, what do Du guys think I should put first, my goals, oder my boyfriend?
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Have Du talked to him about it yet? communication is key :)
doodllecake posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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Thank Du for the advice.
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8theGreat said:
This is something that no one here can really help Du with as it's a rather personal decision.

It all boils down to what Du want in life, your own goals for your own lifestyle. How important is your relationship with your boyfriend to you? How important to Du are your dreams? How important are those things in relationship to one another- which do Du value more? Is your current boyfriend the person Du plan on living your life with?
Those are things Du have to answer for yourself.
Du should also talk to your boyfriend about it as well. He's the best person to consult about this. If the two of Du care about one another, Du should be able to come to a consensus about it and find a solution.

And it sounds like all of this is a rather long time from now. Du have time to think and sort things out. What Du want in life might change between now and then, your plans may change oder something else could happen to throw off your plans- the future is never certain. So don't sweat it to much for now and just talk to him about it and see how he feels. That's all Du really can do for now.
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Thank Du for the advice! Also I took my time and read this answer.
KissKissHannah posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
Kragfan1910 said:
Make sure Du talk to him.
Don't listen to some of these other guys and just up and dump him, but also know that your future is worth pursuing.

So, my Guter Rat is don't ask us, ask him.
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Thank Du for the advice!
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CokeBoy97 said:
Put your goals first. I don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, which means I'm free.

It's really what Du wanna do tho.
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Thank Du for the advice!
KissKissHannah posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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You're welcome...
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TheCountess said:
I pretty much agree with what 8theGreat said. ...and whatever Du do, don't let him trick Du into having sex and get pregnant. That might trap both of Du into a life Du don't want, and certainly one a child doesn't deserve.
Also, is the house his to say who will stay? I'm not saying that I'm right, but that might just be something he sagte to sweet talk you. I suspect that if the grandmother is living there, it's for a good reason, and she and his mom are probably not the ones who'd end up moving.
Whatever Du decide, I hope Du don't get hurt.

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Thank you.
KissKissHannah posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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You're welcome. :)
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