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Shadowmarioking said:
putting "kill her" as an option just tells me how immaturely you're looking at the situation and how you're not thinking why she did this. you're thinking in the retrospect "why did my friend have to backstab me like that just because i tell her this doesn't mean she has to blab about it" lemme put this in a point of view Du can understand. it may not be a good view, but i feel the need to drill it in your head you're the one who told her about this crush. Du disclosed this information to her, and if Du didn't want her to say anything, why didn't Du tell that to her?" now, i'm not saying Du didn't. i don't know if Du did. i'm also not saying that this is your fault. it is something to keep in mind though. telling her crush she likes him will NOT SOLVE ANYTHING, AND WILL PROBABLY COST Du A FRIEND. REVENGE, oder PAYBACK OF ANY SORT WILL NOT HELP YOU. IT IS A CHILDISH RESORT. just, no. ignoring the problem will not make it go away. it will still be there, and it will lurk in your mind for as long as possible. ignorance may be bliss, but there are some situations where it doesn't apply. she may take your ignorance in a negative connotation. being Friends is optional with the boy (if that's what you're referring to), but only if Du feel comfortable with it. i suggest Du tell your friend that Du didn't want her to tell everyone about it, and that personal information like this is meant to be kept between friends, not become some petty gossip story. as for the boy, Du could probably Bestätigen the feelings Du have for him, but in reality what Du do is up to you. Du could easily ignore everything i said, that's fine. in reality, Du control what happens next. i'm just giving Du different Ansichten so that Du can choose your path carefully
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