Yes, and I don't think Du can understand how it feels until it happens to you. I always thought I understood, then it happened to me and it was 10 times worse. People can be so horrible, it makes me want to cry. Luckily I've never been physically abused Von bullies, but sitting in a classroom with a group of bitches talking about Du right in front of your face is bad enough. I've had things thrown at me, I've been laughed at too many times to remember. You've always got to remember to think positively though, you've got to try not to care, you've got to not let them get to you. Because you're richer inside than they'll ever be, and Du must believe that. Always.
actually I bully people who are bullies (i know they are 'cause they are bullying someone at that moment) and if they're my age(so around 16). does that make me as low as actual bullies?
for as long as I remember I've dealt with bullying, mostly because of my autism. I've had rock, pinecones, pencils, pens, and sticks thrown at me, I've been poked in the back of the head and the shoulder and I have to deal with a lot of staring from other people. It's like they expect me to throw a major tantrum like I used to but I haven't thrown one since I was eleven and Von then I was finally starting to get help and learning to finally act like a normal kid. I just wish those kids could see that already. I have serious trust issues because all of my old "friends" were only with me because they wanted something from me oder because they felt sorry for me. Pathetically enough, whenever I see the people who were so cruel to me oder still are, I either stare at the floor and shy away from them oder I hurry to a private place to cry. The bullying only stopped when I made a poem about "my curse" in my contemporary issues class for a project, especially when I almost started crying while Lesen it because it's so depressing
I know, I'm totally pathetic
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I have autism as well, and let me tell you, i've gone through so much trauma from bullying, that i'll break someone's limb if i'm angered enough. I really know how Du feel...
Yes and it is a very serious subject. If Du gepostet this Frage to be mean/sarcastic, that's sad; actually, it makes me wonder if Du were the bully. ??? Anywho, Du should really take stuff seriously before Du post thoughtless/careless questions. :(
I don't want to admit it...but I think I was a bully( sometimes, not always ) myself! * now I want to hear your angry Kommentare like How could Du and et cetera" Come on, I was like 13 I was not thinking that my Kommentare about someone's appearance would hurt their feelings
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im not going to judge Du for your past. however, i dont think Du can make exceptions about your age. The people that bully me are 13, and they know what they're doing alright. I'm not going against you, I'm glad Du can notice it and can look back on your actions and have stopped. I'm just saying that I do think that 13 is old enough to know the right way and the wrong way, I'm 13 myself. And just for the record, I'm not saying I'm perfect, I've made mistakes. But I do think that most 13 Jahr old bullies can see what they're doing.
I've been bullied since I was.... let's see..... three.... and I'm still bullied. Although, I've become Mehr of a bully this Jahr because of the treatment I've gotten over the years. I've even earned the nickname "Karma" because apparently I reward those who do good towards others and punish those who hurt others. I'm actually going to counseling to work out my mental issues and hopefully I become a nicer person towards others.
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That's great! :) Instead of calling Du karma, I'd refer to Du as "The Punisher" LOL
yeah i was bullied a lot i got bullied to the point that i Lost the trust in people and so i became shy and antisocial i even hurt myself a lot got some scars on my arm but now i still get bullied sometimes but now i do not cut myself anymore now i just ignore theme and continue with life.
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did Du say you're too nice to be bullied? that's the reason i AM bullied, because I'm nice, and I'm not a bully. I get bullied because I stuck up for a victim of bullying. its ridiculous.
No, but sometimes annoyed but I fight back if I get bullied and even when I see someone get bullied I try to help and never let a bully get away with it so FUCK OFF bullies XD
Here is a quote Von someone on my fanlist on facebook. "The Girl Du just called fat? She has been starving herself & has Lost over 30lbs. The Boy Du just called stupid? He has a learning disability & studies over 4hrs a night. The Girl Du just called ugly? She spends hours putting makeup on hoping people will like her.The Boy Du just tripped? He is abused enough at home. There's a lot Mehr to people than Du think...."
^that quote makes me cry. Jacobblackswife, just remember, what goes around comes around. true story.there's Mehr to life that Jacob Black. Maybe Du could make someone smile for a change, its a lot Mehr rewarding. and the fact that Du realize what you're doing, well, think Weiter time. think how you'd feel in that position. its not funny, its heart-breaking.
Tamar 20 stfu i dont appreciate your sarcasm. did i say i was proud? no. did i put an ecessive amount of exclamation marks of even a smile at the end? no.
I have been bullied for being unlike everyone else, I have been bullied for liking cars rather than sports, for having only one friend, for having asperger's syndrome, for liking Japanese culture, and many other things. I have bullied for people being idiots in my class and constantly disrupting it.
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Those sound like very piss-poor reasons to bully someone. I gues they find whatever they can get to make someone elses life hell. It's ridiculous.
Yes, but not Von a peer, no. I've been bullied Von teachers on several occasions. No one should have to go through being bullied. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. It makes Du feel like absolute shit. If someone figures that there is even a slight possibility that they can walk all over Du and get away with it, they will, and with every effort to make themselves feel good and superior, to the point that it makes Du feel worthless. Not a pretty place to be.
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i hate that hun, it sucks i know..but i've never been bullied Von teachers, that's a new one. :( i'm sorry.:(
Yes I have been bullied, I've lived with it almost every Tag for the past 6 oder so years. My step-dad is one of my biggest bullies. He finds ways of hurting me every chance he gets to, it pisses me off so much. Another thing is the bitches i go to school with, either with their damn drama, oder what they still find time to pick on someone 'lower' then them. It's so stupid!
Yes, all my life. Von other kids, people i pass on the street, Von people I've never even seen before. That's what happens when your born with a very conspicuous disfigurement on your face and the doctors refuse to remove it early on. But there's nothing i can do about it now. I've always been bullied and I'll continue to be bullied for the rest of my life, I've had years to except that.
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That's horrible! :O People need to learn that beauty is only skin deep -_-
They never will. Even my family are repulsed Von my appearence (i can see it in their faces) That's how the world works. if your ugly, Du might as well kill yourself yo avoid future pain.
Most probably a simple stranger feeling sorry for Du won't make Du feel better , but this really made me sad , how mean and judgemental people can be , I am sorry for you.
Thank Du for being concious of what effect your words may have. Your words won't turn my life around, but it still made me feel a fraction better, and for that Du have my gratitiude.
Yes,I was bullied in high school Von some d*ckhead who thought it'd be cool to Zeigen off to his friends.It only happened for a short while because my parents got it sorted out,but while it was happening,it made my life hell :(
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thank god your parents intervened. Most of them never do.
People shouldn't suffer in silence :( It was only because my grandma found me crying that she found out,and I'm glad she did,that put him in his place :)
Yes, to the point where I was trying to kill myself in the 2nd grade. I have been bullied my entire life. I have all kinds of emotional and mental issues (that may oder may not have been there before, but I'll never know) now. No one deserves to be put through the kind of pain I was put through. I'm glad you've never been bullied though.
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I am so teribbly sorry that you've been put through such pointless suffering. There is probably nothing i can say to Du that can help, because i'd be lying if i sagte everything will be all right eventually.
Yeah, I learned that, but I also know that those kids will end up working minimum wage jobs when I'm earning 120,000 dollars a Jahr with my money from my novels so it's all good. My issues also help a lot with creativity, if Du know what I mean.
That is the key way to look at it :) People who bully only have insecurities about themselves so when Du have a nice house with a fantastic career and lots of money,you'll have the last laugh ;)
When I was in kindergarten some grils scratched my hands , there were some ugly marks. But if I would see them today I would most probably beat them up LOL ...they were kind of snobs.
Yes I have been for years but not hardely anymore since I'm in high school. I've gotten tripped, had pencils thrown at me, pine cones, paper, erasers, and several other things. It was worse but now I only get bullied a few times a month.
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