Look, I’ll say this. Katherine may have sagte that she loved Damon because it would rattle Elena. But, what seems to confuse people is her behavior in 2x21-2x22 — in comination with these words. Hence, it’s very much a statement like, “I don’t get it! First, Katherine loves Stefan forever (and ever, amen!) and then she loves Damon. Katherine’s confusing!” that tends to circulate around the fandom.
But, I’ll agree there.
She’s an enigma, and I don’t deny that.
That said, I think that what you’re pointing out is actually pretty simple, and just wasn’t told to Du throughout...
It seems to be common knowledge that Damon is over Katherine, but a perfect example of Damon still caring about Katherine is 2x17 (Damon being visibly upset over the possibility of Katherine’s death).
Since we all know Damon knows better than to let Katherine know a weakness oder wallow in whatever he might feel, what really makes Damon over Katherine? What makes Damon’s hard-found distance anything Mehr than an act?
The tomb scene? Well, yes — “Death would have been too kind” and all that jazz. However, when pushed, Damon has never killed Katherine, and I think that says a lot more...
Edward and Bella. He's a brooding predator, who can't help but love his prey
I've often wondered why Damon and Katherine are contested so greatly. I mean, it is without a doubt the most romantic Liebe story of the show. I wont go so far as to tell their story. We all know it Von now. I'm no closer to coming up with an answer as to why everybody hates Datherine, but I have come up with an idea. Perhaps it can all be summed up in one word: Katherine. (If you're interested in some of the tropes I mention in the article, I have included Links in the headings of each paragraph.)