How much do Du hate Stefan and be honest

I don't hate Stefan. I do hate how condescending and righteous Stefan tries to act towards Damon. At the end of the Tag both brothers have done some really fucked up things and not one of them can reserve the right to judge each other. I also really hate how every one constantly makes it a point to say that Stefan is the better choice for her like Damon, Klaus, Rose. I would Liebe to know why Stefan is thought to be the better choice. He's a ripper which means he has completely torn body pieces to shreds. Innocent women, men, and children have all been ripped apart Von Stefan throughout the years. He killed his father. He faked an attempt to kill Elena even after he wasn't under Klaus compulsion. He's done some really fucked up stuff. And please don't think i am not aware of ALL Damon's past indiscretions because I totally am. Damon has FUCKED up monumentally. But to me the distinction between the two brother is Stefan tries to lie about who he really is and what he likes whereas Damon is upfront about everything he does. No Stefan didn't kill Damon's best friend but he DID kill his fake/girlfriend. He's not any better than Damon. And at least Damon could give Stefan his Requisiten Von saying "I dont deserve Du Elena but Stefan does". Whereas when the shoe was on the other foot Stefan blatantly told Damon "you don't deserve her" and it took a lot of nerve for him to say that when he TRIED to kill her and DAMON was the one there for her all those months he was gone and not him. I like both brothers like I sagte I just don't appreciate Stefan playing the role of of the martyr and Schauspielen like he's the good brother. He's no better for her than Damon is. Because at the end of the Tag both brothers are flawed, fucked up, and have a dark side to them.

This is my question!! Seriously I don;t think words can describe the hatred I feel for him.
He's a lying, deceiving, manipulative , father-killing, animal-killing vampire with no sense of humor. He's ugly, cheesy, brooding, boring, self-pitying, judgy, clingy, controlling, selfish buzz killer. I detest him!!!!!!! If I could remove anyone from the Zeigen it would be him!!!!!!!!

I don't hate him at all. Not even a little bit.
"He won't let elena go anywhere without him"
Well, he let her go to Duke with Alaric AND Damon, with everything that Damon implies because she had to know about her past and he understood. Did he like it? No, he sagte so himself. Elena offered to stay and help him with Caroline and go another time when he can go with her. But he sagte she should go either way because it was important to her.
"Elena had to lie to him cause she knew what would happen"
Elena chose to lie because yes, Stefan would've wanted to at least go with her but I think Elena wanted and needed to learn about Katherine's story all Von herself. With Stefan there the conversation would've been different with Kat talking to Stefan instead of telling her story like she did.
"and as soon as he found out where she was he went there"
Of course! He's a worried boyfriend that just found out that her girlfriend is in a cave with his vampire ex, the big bad Kat, not to mention her doppelganger.
For the ones saying that he's not hot, he is.
And for those criticizing how he killed his father, made Damon drink blood for the first time, etc... don't be hypocrites! Damon wouldn't be here now, he would've died in 1864 just like he told Stefan that he wanted to. And then we wouldn't have DE... and TBH, if there was someone who deserved to die, that was Giuseppe Salvatore. Maybe not at the hands (or theeth) of one of his sons, but he deserved it.
And beside, I've read some Kommentare about how he used to be bad (Damon-like to be specific) and criticizing that. That's just another sign of hypocrisy... when Damon does it it's "okay" because he's so hot and all but when Stefan does it it's wrong?

And I do see things in Stefan. In fact, if his endgame isn't Elena oder Katherine I'd suggest he ends up with me... But I can't explain what I see in him to a person who calls Elena & Katherine blind for loving him.

I'm a big Delena fan, and when I say big I mean BBBBIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIGGGG, but that doesn't mean I'm gonna hate Stefan oder see bad things where there aren't. He isn't perfect, no, but he still doesn't deserve all this hatred...

i agree with all of you.
he is just so anoying.can't stand him because he always judg damon for everything that happend.he's always like˝i am so good and Du damon are the meanest person on this world˝...seriously he doesn't leave elena alone, she can't go anywere without him and he always have to know where she was-if some miricle happend and she goes somewhere alone..itc.and always when damon saves her he is like so jealous and then he star, sterne telling elena how mean and dangeorous can damon be and that she can't trust him and all that shit!and he is so boring person, i think that he don't have any personality and no sence of humor!
well ok, i see that i wrote a hole novel about how annoying stefan is...but i can't help myself;)

he can be annoying sometimes. i dont like that he thinks that he knows whats best for elena.....other than that hes ok.

God , I absolutley HATE him . He's just to annoying and isn't even funny oder hot .
Also , I really don't get why Elena and Katherine are so crazy over him , Damon is WAY better than Stefan .

How much I hate him ? 0. I really like him :) And with Katherine even Mehr :') <33 If only they would end up together..
But not with Elena, gosh Stelena is soo boring -.-'
Elena is for Damon :)

Tbh, I don't hate him even tho I sometimes say I do. It's just his behavior and 'saintness' that annoys the crap outta me. Stefan is a creepy stalker, hypocrite, self-righteous, self-pitying, lying, brooding, ungrateful, jealous dolt. I HATE him and Elena together. Stefan's brood is rubbing off on Elena and she needs someone like Damon to restore her fire. Elena becomes like her old self around Damon.

Honestly... I used to be in Liebe him! But after i started realizing how.... AMAZING Damon was, I saw that he was just another Edward. No doubt though, I Liebe the sparkles!! he was me first Vampire Liebe (but damon's bumped Eddy down a bit). I still had a little herz for Stefan. He was cute... and sweet. But lately, I've been gathering up a annoious for him. I noticed (not recently, but it came back to me) that Stefan is way Mehr selfish than he seems. and that, he wants every to like hime and think he's the safer/better brother. He uses Damon and anyone else to make himself look better to Elena. And he's stealing all of Damon's credit!! I seriously dont think he deserves Elena anymore, seeing how much he's a liar. He's Mehr of a liar than Damon, and i just cant wait for elena to see that! And for once, maybe give Stefan a nice slap across the face. And he IS clingy! I feel so wrong saying all this stuff about him, but I'm being honest!!

I totally agree with you...I really can't stand him o.O (believe me I already tried) and it's not just because he is with elena...

he gets on my nerves with Zitate like "I am the GOOD brother" (yeah right) oder when he starts judging damon AND katherine (btw in the end he is always wrong)
and wtf is wrong with elena?! he basically admited that he was watching her FOR MONTHS...how creepy is that? oh wait...it's romantic -.-'

i dont really hate him but hes a good guy the hot sexy bad boy is always better i just cant resist the hot bad boy oh i Liebe damonn lolz stephen is not as hot oder as bad it is just the way it is

Yeah he is clingy i'm suprised elena hasn't dumped him yet and go for damon it's like every girl in mystic fall is under his compusion

i Liebe him <3 if elena isnt with damon its her fault not stefan O_o he didnt forbid her to see damon oder something

I don't hate Stefan. I don't like him either, but I don't hate him.
I just want him to stay away from Elena!

I Liebe Stefan...just not anytime he's with Elena. With her he becomes boring and he's just not the right guy for her. Stefan was what she needed after her parents died...I don't think the independent and fierce person that that Elena is (which is a part of her that died with her parents) matches well with Stefan.

I don't hate him at all. I just hate him and Elena...they bore me.

... what Joanna said, haha!

except I don't hate him AS much. It's that contradictory thing that I hate the most. He tells Damon he's horrible, evil, he has no capability to do anything for anyone else... yet as soon as Damon does a good deed, Stefan shoots him down saying it's an ulterior motive for Damon to get something he needs.
Basically, he wants Damon to be good. As soon as he is.. well, he's still an evil vamp doing it for his own benefit.
Wake up and smell the Bambi-blood Stef, Damon's getting in touch with his humanity, kid! Now jog on and try to do a better job of convincing us that Du hate Katherine.

Du sagte to be honest , ok i am !!!
i never hate him cauze he is aweosme Du guys don't like him cauze Du guys just living in Du little delena world and won't see the truth stefan is good for her he gives her save and Liebe Du are so obsessed with delena that Du don't see what elena wants and this is stefan NOT damon Du just wan't d/e cauze of your damon thge guy that kills humans and don't care to be honest i liked always d/e too but if i see your bashing and how hatefull Du guys are makes me to HATE d/e not cauze of d/e cauze of Du , Du guys that don't have hobbys just bashing bashing bashing Du should not sit in Du room the whole Tag and wait for delena and bashing Du should go abck to real life and aczept what the fact is and Du now what the fact is STELENA elena wants stefan so just let her and stop bashing and care about your own things Du can Liebe delena of course Du can but stop bashing if Du don't have hobbie's than look for some and stop bashing and just aczept what the fact is and wait what happens but not BASHING !!!

I dont hate him because he is an ok character but I notice that his character sort of changes when he's around Elena so I don't like him when he's with her. I like him better when he's sometimes with other characters like Caroline. And when he acts like a desent brother to Damon. But its mostly when he's with Elena that I don't like him at all!

If I am going to be completely honest. I do not hate him. I sometimes do not like him. He very often irritates me. But sometimes he is ok. But he is not a complex enough character for me and a little self-righteous. He will probably never become my favorite. But he is important to the show.

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I don't hate him.. LOL I just want him to be with CERTAIN people.

I hate Stefan. He's so clingy and he's like too girly. He's not strong, he cries, and drinks animal blood out of guilt? gross. too edward. I hate him. Always have. Personally, I like Damon and ELena, becuase he doesnt force her. He lets her make her own desicions, and he knows whats best for her. He'll only intervene when her life is in danger,and he'll do what he can to make her happy. She has this feeling for him thats so forbidden, and its deeper then Stefan's i-know-you-a-week-and-i-suddenly-love-you-crap. It was a buildup, and i hope this doesnt dissapoint and leave off with stelena. 80% of followers are delena, it would be like twilight. forbidden Liebe is the best. theres nothing forbidden about stelena. is gross, repetitive, and annoying. I HATE STEFAN. he needs katherine

I dont hate Stefan. He comes out of his shell when hes around anyone but Elena. He is quirky & caring (in a friendship/reassuring way) when hes around Caroline & smiles more, he is snappy, sarcastic & funny when hes around Katherine, hes supportive when hes around Bonnie, & defensive plus almost has one-liners when hes around Damon, but when he is around Elena, he gets all angsty, broody, & mushy while being cuddly & static. Theres so much that can be done with him besides being with Elena.

In the books, I loath him. Hes too static & nothing about him is appealing. He is Mehr like a victim than anything else in the Bücher instead of the hero (getting stuck in the well, taken Von Shinichi). His relationship with Elena has NO buildup compared to the quickened buildup on the show. Too sugary & cheesy. Icky.

I don't hate him at all. Just with Elena. He's so BORING with her. Not to mention stalkerish, lying, overbearing, self-loathing, brooding, and just annoying.
Without Elena, he's a much Mehr interesting character. I Liebe it when him and Damon are just being brothers. He's a lot Mehr fun with Caroline, even though I would hate it if they got together, and I Liebe him when he is with Katherine.
So Elena, stay away from Stefan. You're ruining his amazing character.

I'll have my moments where I loathe him because of his influence over elena and some of the stuff that he says sounds really conceited but there are other times where I can't help but Liebe him

well, actually I don't hate him. He's ok, but sometimes I think, he wants to be like Damon ... He wants to be funny be he isn't. That's a lil bit exhausting.

i dont hate stefan i like his character but i just dont like him with elena, i think him and katherine have chemistry they belong to each other... i like damon and elena, but sometimes i just want damon to find someone else some one that he really deserves idk but yea i dont hate stefan

I don't hate him, he's in the way but i'd like him to be with katherine

How could Du hate Stefan? Huh, why?

I don't totaly hate him but i don't like him either but i can Liebe him if he just stay away from elena ! But you're right katherine and elena are definitely must be blind how can they choose him over Damon!
DELENA FTW !!

I hate him passionately he is the most annoying and one-dimensional character in the Zeigen after Bonnie. and when I think that it's absolutely impossible to hate him even Mehr he does something really annoying oder stupid. I got mad when he asked Alaric in the last episode why he was doing dirty work for Damon WTF Stefan??? it's called friendship when Du support and help each other in hard times. IMO Stefan is one-dimensional jealous asshole.

well .. i have to admit that in their case he is MR. Perfect to them which is kinda right but we ship
DE cuz they have everything a couple could have from undying Liebe to fighting but stefan to elena oder Katherine is a gentleman i can't deny that considering that damon could be a jerk most of the time that is why we all do like damon besides he is a HOTTY with the leather jacke and those blue eyes yes i don't like stefan but i can't say i hate him either

I hate stefan for what he did to rebekah! Like if Du agree with me!

honestly, i REALLY can't stand him, before it was just like who cares about him, i didn't really have any feelings on him, it was just Sefan.. But now i really really can't stand him atall!!!!! who knows why, maybe its because he thinks he's better than Damon and he thinks he is better for Elena and he is just not! simpy as! he is on his bunny diet and thinks its the best because he isn't hurting humans well he has no control!!!! then when he does go all rippery he is hurting humans whereas Damon has control so her can stop.... But anyway he just annoyings the heck outta me, all saint like and that, i don't buy it. pfffft

oh damn... let me tell you!! i can't even begin to describe my hatred for this guy!!! yes...i LOATH him with a passion!!! and im not ashamed to admit it!! everything from his rediculous animal diet to his annoying holier than tho attitude towards damon, to his constant sucking up to elena!!! seriously??!! JUST GO THE FUCK TO HELL STEFAN!!!! and leave elena to someone who knows how to handle her!! TEAM DAMON ALL THE WAY!!!

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I can't say I exactly hate him, because to tell the truth, his character fascinates me. He's just so psychological damaged, it's just fascinating in the worst way to watch him. I do hate many of his character traits, and I desperately want to see character growth with him, but the writers just won't give him any.
I find myself hating on him a lot, though. His attitude towards Damon and Elena is just horrifying. What's worse, is that nobody realizes it, and they both feel like they deserve that attitude. I just want him to face how horribly he treats them, for once.

I don't like him. He's boring and Elena and him don't really have chemistry together. I ship Delena! Damon for the win. ;)

I hate Stefan he was jealous when Elena found out she loved Damon and Stefan locks Damon in a sell and says too Elena to stay away from him I HATE HIM SOO MUCH SOMEBODY KILL HIM KLAUS PLEASE KILL THE BASTARD

I personally Liebe Damon because he has the kind of personality that everybody loves. Elena loves Damon because he is always there when Elena needs him

I don't like Stefan at all. He's so boring, he doesn't make jokes . He's agressive, Du can see that clearly in the two first seasons. example: Jeremy tried to kill himself but he survived and he slapped him ( not so har but he did) and held his hand on his jaw hardly and sagte something like "why did Du do that?" aggressively.

I Liebe stefan. I hate damon. Damon stahl, stola elena from stefan like a selfish douchebag. Damon was so heartless towards his mother on her deathbed and at her funeral. He thinks its amusing. Hes such a monster i hate him. Stefan deserves everything & Damon deserves nothing. I dont care how handsome Damon is, He's literally such an annoying cunt

uhh I HATE STEFAN.

This isn't just because I'm a strong Delena fan- the writers couldn't have carried on with Stelena, frankly because it was so boring.

People judge Damon on all the bad things he's done but this is vampire diaries, what do Du expect????????

stelena- a welpe Liebe story of a loner guy who came to start a life with a girl, he has been stalking since months, the girl meets him, instantly fell in Liebe with the guy considering him a saint gentleman, the guy didn't bother to tell her the dark secrets, until she found out herself oder from Klaus oder Damon. the guy waited till she starts feeling for him, kept too many secrets from her from the beginning, and when the mission was accomplished, after some time, the girl left him for a guy she truly fell in Liebe with, someone who was brutally honest with her, Mehr strong, Mehr sexy, funny, adventurous, friendly extrovert, good hearted, and someone who knew how to live and let others live life to the fullest. the girl marries the perfect guy for her and lived happily ever after.

coming to the answer of the question,

I hate stefan because he is self righteous, judgy, lacks sense of humor, manipulative, how he acts like a saint, and no matter how many horrible things he do, he is still considered a saint and the only good person on earth Von everyone"

He is nothing compared to Ian somerholder in looks department, so I don't understand what katherine oder elena saw in him, other than his saint behavior.