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This Is A Relationship Problem That I REALLY NEED HELP!!!!!!!

I have this friend whom I have known for nearly two years and as time pasted we grew closer, as I started to help him get over his past and helping him learn to control his anger and even be his shoulder to cry on.I helped him and showed him Liebe in a way no one else could oder would. Over time he began seeing me as Mehr than a friend and fell hard for me, he tested me and told me his feelings which I was stunned Von but also happy. I told him I'd Liebe to go out with him but I just didn't feel the same way and I can only hope they never did. He was disappointed but went along with it. And over a Monat oder two one night I just sagte "Yes, I'll go out with you." Why? Because he sweet talked me that night (he did it before that too though) and my herz was swept away Von him. Ok so I went out with him but every time he touched me I didn't feel that tingle when Du touch some Du like let alone heat, when talks to me I don't stop and stare in his eyes, my herz does pound at 100 miles an hour. I just don't get ANY of those feelings I did when I had my first and Sekunde crush. My herz isn't in it with him, yet I tell him I Liebe Du and I act like the perfect girl friend when we make out and talk, he feels like he is heaven (and I KNOW he does because I see it on his face and I HEAR it in his voice) but me? Nothing. None of that happens to me. I want to Liebe him but I just can't for some reason! AND I DON'T KNOW WHY?!?!?!!!! We have been dating for a good eight months now and NOTHING has changed!!! I get the feeling we are not to be no matter how much I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I just don't feel anything....I told him and he sagte they'd come but they haven't.
 Dhampires posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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Rainshadow999 said:
I think you're worrying too much about whether Du like him oder not. That wasn't supposed to offend Du but it is the truth…let me start over.

You're worrying too much :D
Actually you're either worrying too much oder thinking too much, stop think if Du like him oder not and get to know him more…maybe Du need Mehr trust from him?
Be happy, you're 14! (I checked your profile) That means Du shouldn't be concerned about your feelings for him unless they're happy-go-lucky!

I hope half of this made sense…I wouldn't know what to do either, if Du need Mehr help Du can always send me a message :)
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I'd have to agree. Maybe if Du find out Mehr about him the feelings wll come? I don't know. Good Guter Rat though. :)
PucksLady posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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