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How can I let some of my family and Friends accept the fact that I am into Korean Culture and that I like KPop?

Recently, I haven't been able to go to Youtube to watch some Musik Videos of my Favorit bands in KPop. So when I have the time to sit down and watch TV, I watch Myx (Filipino Channel devoted to Music) oder MTV so I can watch it there instead. Usually, when I am going to watch, my parents are watching as well, so we switch between channels (our other TV is under repair) and when I am going to ask if I can watch it a little bit longer, because it's about to end anyway, they'd say no, saying that I watched it about a hundred times already. My parents also say that I'm too obsessed with my fandoms and I should lay off it; they don't see my Friends listening to KPop 24/7. And whenever we hear Musik that's not in English, my parents will go all like; that's Du KPop again, isn't it?

And my Friends also can't accept the fact, they'll get all annoyed if I talk about KPop ad don't know anything about the latest American Music. They gradually stopped talking to me about Music.

And I want to go to Korea. I always wanted to. But my parents and Friends will be all mad saying I really am too obsessed. And if I spout out facts about Zufällig countries (interested in study of the world and countries~) and suddenly go to Korea (and Japan for that matter =_=) they will flinch and look at me like I've grown an extra head oder something.

I really want to stop this treatment, but I'm not willing to go shut up about Korea (and Japan) just because of this. They have to accept the fact, but I really don't know what to do. Can someone help me on this? because of this.
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ILoveRandomness posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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mal-geun said:
same here. I've completely forgotten about the American songs now in these days. My grandma used to be like your parents too. But now she's okay with it because i have good grades. My Friends also like kpop. In your case, i think talking less about Kpop will help. if Du don't like american hip hop don't bother listening to it oder talking about it.
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maya417loveSuJu said:
this might be not the answer, but i want to share something similar..:
we are exactly the same..i got SuJu Hintergrund on my notebook, handphone also a lot of their pics and posters too..whenever my chingu and omma see it..they will tease me something like.." why are u being silly, its not like they know you. even if they saw u in the streets,they would have ignore u. stop obsessed over things like that" that is what have been sagte to me. and i would answer like this.."it doesnt matter whether they know me , ignore me,or like me as much as i do, the things is i like, love, adore,admire,respect them sooo much. as long as i can see them, it is enough already." with that, they remain silent. if they even teased me again, i will reply the same, over and over again. so,, why dont Du try..
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
aisyah019 said:
Du must hear a little bit of your country song and english song.maybe Du can be acceptable among your Friends and family.keep hearing k-pop song too.you must get into your country culture not just korean culture.i think this is the answer that i can give.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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XD But What If We Dont wanna listen to american Musik Cuz it Sucks
jamesmaslowmine posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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and imamerican not even asian and i live in new york and american Musik sukcs now
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KorIMoriTsuki said:
Du and I are the same. the only difference is that I'm super obsessed with japanese music. I'm american but I know ABSOLUTLY nothing about american music...that is except for the hardcore rock/goth rock/screamo/dubstep/fashion extreamist singers/bands.....anyways, they'll learn eventually. Mine did. As a result, I mostly keep to myself but am TOTALLY happy. It's rare that I'll asccoiate with anyone, but it's anyone who knows what I'm talking about. On purpose I will dress with some sort of Anime cosplay item oder apparrel. If someone wants to talk to me about what my interests are then they better be prepared
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
001064835 said:
TELL HOW Du FOUND KPOP. IM JUST LIKE U .MY FAMILY IS LIKE THAT.THEY WILL ACEPT IT SOON oder LATER
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bubbamubba said:
I am so sorry to hear that your family and Friends do not accept your Kpop love. I too have friend who is absolutely intolerant of it. I will mention just the name "Super Junior" and suddenly she'll get angry and shut me up. However, I was lucky enough to find people who understood me and felt the same way about Kpop as I did. Now I talk to them about it and don't have to bother my other friend. I hope Du can find Friends who have the same interests as you. As for the issue of having your family and Friends accept it, I think that Du should just tell them that Du are who Du are. If it's not affecting their lives,so why should they care so much anyways? This may be tough to do, but Du should try to stand up for who Du are, because no one can change that about you. Good luck, hwaiting! <3
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jamesmaslowmine said:
IK My Friend Even Went To My Guidance Councillor about me and Kpop and it pissed me off cuz that's all i talk about me and my friend Alex they say im 2 obsessed and im like and i don't fucking care what u think just b/c u say im 2 obsessed does not mean imma stop listening to Kpop if u don't like it don't talk to me I Know How U Feel
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kpop_fan1 said:
The same goes for me. But I don't give a shit and still continue to talk about Kpop. They just have to accept the fact that American Musik just doesn't interest me anymore.
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