i'm the same way when it comes to a big crowd, but once Du start Singen its like no one is there and Du are Singen your herz out and when Du finish its like, WHOA I CAN'T BELIEVE I JUST DID THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I was like that 2,i just started Singen a little bit around people at work and sometimes they would complement me on my Singen and sometimes they would Mitmachen in and sing with me if it was a song they knew.you just have to break yourself in slowly,singing a little bit here and a little bit there.
Trust me, it starts out like that. When I used to perform solos as a kid, the first time I ever did it was the most nerve wracking experience ever. On auditioning Tag i was shaking like crazy, but that was because I was alone in a room of all men. But when Du are in front of a huge croud like in an auditorium, as soon as Du start, Du start and the whole experience feels blurry. Du don't remember a thing until Du are done, then Du are just like "DID I REALLY JUST DO THAT?". It's what happened to me. I actually got to carried away shivering back stage that the MC had to call me after she announced my name again.
My main advice, don't tell yourself don't be nervous. It's actually scientifically proven that when Du tell yourself don't be nervous Du become Mehr nervous. Just take a deep breath and say "if Du are nervous, that's fine, everyone get's nervous" I swear it works!
I don’t tell anyone I’m nervous. I let my mind go blank as I walk out. I don’t allow myself to think it nor feel it oder anything oder else I get super nervous. Then I’m a lot less nervous. Lol. I can’t get rid of it completely even though my job is public speaking and I’m never nervous there.