Is it safe, sicher to have sex with someone who has herpes?

That's a very good question. If Du really want to know for yourself oder your friend, then the best thing Du can do is ask your doctor. And play? Like oral oder something else? Cause herpes can be contracted through oral as well. From what I've heard and read Du just have to watch for any bumps like pimples in odd places. Still ask a doctor, they would be Mehr knowledgeable.

Bruh. No.