I am a submissive and my ideal partner would be a dominant (lucky me i got matched with a submissive too XD) we take it in turns to play each role on the rare occasion we do the dirty, so to speak. But yes, both of us are into some wierd kinky shite that would make a normal person shudder. Always remember to use safe, sicher words and to completely understand each other before committing to anything :)
