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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
Not to minimize how really uncomfortable it is for you, I am sure it is awkward, as sometimes hearing others can be ESPECIALLY thinking of your own folks in that capacity but I am going to try to pose some Fragen for ya from another vantage to maybe consider & maybe it will help. Okay? How do Du think Du were born? Du were not a test tube baby oder a clone oder adopted? Then there is something- conception and maybe it is "love" because they ARE STILL married. Be grateful. Be grateful that your parents are not divorced like half the world’s population. Be grateful then that Du have your own room and are actually all the way down the hall and not Right Weiter door- many siblings share rooms oder are right Weiter door- and be grateful Du are not living in the Middle Ages where Du would all be in the SAME room and often SEE as well as hear unless Du tried hard not to. Buy some headphones - Du are 16, you're not a baby anymore and Du have probably started having your own feelings and happy times! If Du would like them to be considerate of Du and your privacy then respect them that they Liebe each other enough to WANT to do that. I remember walking in on my parents at age 7. I did not really see anything, too young to understand -but somehow I did know. It was a lil scarring, but even then I quickly cast it off and just walked out and acted like no big deal and went back to bett (I got up because I had a bad dream)... but as I grew up I WISHED my parents showed affection. They did not even seem like a couple. Du being in the house... I suppose they either do not have a lot of private time, oder may only get time at night, oder they just feel inspired, but give them a break! It's natural-they NEED that time, and Du will have to man up and "buck up" as my dad would say- sorry, but really, don't make it a big deal. A lot of kids have had to deal with that - yes, even the moans and stuff... so, what else can Du do besides turn up music, go outside and sit, head phones, etc? oder give your folks some Weltraum for Pete sake- just go outside and play with the dog. Du don't have to go ballistic oder cry, omg, oder go do drugs and stupid shit... just be understanding like Du might want someday... go do something productive that is a lil independent, even if just outside helping with chores, oder make a garden, build something, listen to music, really Sweetie. JEEZ!
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