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I keep hearing my parents having sex and it's freaking me out

I'm 16, and my parents have this really bad habit of doing it while I'm in the house. My bedroom is just down the hall from theirs and sometimes they do it while I'm trying to get to sleep and I can hear them making noises and it keeps me up. It doesn't help to be downstairs either because I can still hear the floor creak above me. I just can't get those disgusting Bilder out of my head whenever it happens, which is at least twice a week. One time I accidentally walked in on them and I was so freaked out I started crying. I've tried to tell my mom that it makes me really uncomfortable but she just tells me that they need to do it while I'm in the house because I never leave. What should I do?
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"Bad Habit"? I guess Du do not realise how "natural" sex is yet and between a married couple -that is GREAT. I agree it on YOUr end it's hard for Du maybe to understand, and they should be decent about, but I think Du are making way too much of a normal thing people have dealt with for centuries and perhaps Du need to be understanding, oder just put headphones on to sleep on those ocassions? NOT make it a big deal. It's not some nasty criminal behavior. No one is shagging the family dog in drunken orgies infront of Du and making lewd remarks and passes at you. They are married and just once oder twice a week, I think they need and deserve AT least that.
Sinna_Hime_chan posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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& sorry Twilight Girl ~ I thought Du were a "guy" until I noticed the username... but still, uncomfortable as it is, I am sure Du can do something & can accept that it is natural. Hopefully the'll be a lil Mehr quiet too... oder Du turn your Musik up louder.
Sinna_Hime_chan posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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For the people wondering why I wasn't answering the comments: I did not "leave". I asked a question, Du all answered, I considered all your Antwort inside my head. None of Du offended me, I just didn't know some of Du wanted to be responded to. Von the way, thank Du all for the advice.
TwilightGirl312 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
Not to minimize how really uncomfortable it is for you, I am sure it is awkward, as sometimes hearing others can be ESPECIALLY thinking of your own folks in that capacity but I am going to try to pose some Fragen for ya from another vantage to maybe consider & maybe it will help. Okay?

How do Du think Du were born? Du were not a test tube baby oder a clone oder adopted? Then there is something- conception and maybe it is "love" because they ARE STILL married. Be grateful. Be grateful that your parents are not divorced like half the world’s population. Be grateful then that Du have your own room and are actually all the way down the hall and not Right Weiter door- many siblings share rooms oder are right Weiter door- and be grateful Du are not living in the Middle Ages where Du would all be in the SAME room and often SEE as well as hear unless Du tried hard not to. Buy some headphones - Du are 16, you're not a baby anymore and Du have probably started having your own feelings and happy times! If Du would like them to be considerate of Du and your privacy then respect them that they Liebe each other enough to WANT to do that. I remember walking in on my parents at age 7. I did not really see anything, too young to understand -but somehow I did know. It was a lil scarring, but even then I quickly cast it off and just walked out and acted like no big deal and went back to bett (I got up because I had a bad dream)... but as I grew up I WISHED my parents showed affection. They did not even seem like a couple. Du being in the house... I suppose they either do not have a lot of private time, oder may only get time at night, oder they just feel inspired, but give them a break! It's natural-they NEED that time, and Du will have to man up and "buck up" as my dad would say- sorry, but really, don't make it a big deal. A lot of kids have had to deal with that - yes, even the moans and stuff... so, what else can Du do besides turn up music, go outside and sit, head phones, etc?

oder give your folks some Weltraum for Pete sake- just go outside and play with the dog. Du don't have to go ballistic oder cry, omg, oder go do drugs and stupid shit... just be understanding like Du might want someday... go do something productive that is a lil independent, even if just outside helping with chores, oder make a garden, build something, listen to music, really Sweetie. JEEZ!
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 Not to minimize how really uncomfortable it is for you, I am sure it is awkward, as sometimes hearing others can be ESPECIALLY thinking of your own folks in that capacity but I am going to try to pose some Fragen for ya from another vantage to maybe consider & maybe it will help. Okay? How do Du think Du were born? Du were not a test tube baby oder a clone oder adopted? Then there is something- conception and maybe it is "love" because they ARE STILL married. Be grateful. Be grateful that your parents are not divorced like half the world’s population. Be grateful then that Du have your own room and are actually all the way down the hall and not Right Weiter door- many siblings share rooms oder are right Weiter door- and be grateful Du are not living in the Middle Ages where Du would all be in the SAME room and often SEE as well as hear unless Du tried hard not to. Buy some headphones - Du are 16, you're not a baby anymore and Du have probably started having your own feelings and happy times! If Du would like them to be considerate of Du and your privacy then respect them that they Liebe each other enough to WANT to do that. I remember walking in on my parents at age 7. I did not really see anything, too young to understand -but somehow I did know. It was a lil scarring, but even then I quickly cast it off and just walked out and acted like no big deal and went back to bett (I got up because I had a bad dream)... but as I grew up I WISHED my parents showed affection. They did not even seem like a couple. Du being in the house... I suppose they either do not have a lot of private time, oder may only get time at night, oder they just feel inspired, but give them a break! It's natural-they NEED that time, and Du will have to man up and "buck up" as my dad would say- sorry, but really, don't make it a big deal. A lot of kids have had to deal with that - yes, even the moans and stuff... so, what else can Du do besides turn up music, go outside and sit, head phones, etc? oder give your folks some Weltraum for Pete sake- just go outside and play with the dog. Du don't have to go ballistic oder cry, omg, oder go do drugs and stupid shit... just be understanding like Du might want someday... go do something productive that is a lil independent, even if just outside helping with chores, oder make a garden, build something, listen to music, really Sweetie. JEEZ!
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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Best answer EVER! And yes it is true parents do need their private time and yes, if your bothered Von that then as Sinna sagte go out and play with the dog LOL
DarkCruz360 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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Excellent answer, and this picture totally cracks me up. I have neighbors with a large family, and I'm always wondering, how do they get the time to shag? So I'm pretty much envious of anyone who is doing the deed.
jester616 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
jester616 said:
I'm shocked your parents are still even having sex! However, while that's great for them, they should be Mehr sensitive to the fact that you're around too, and are always overhearing them. Do try talking with whichever parent Du are most comfortable with, and if they have any courtesy, they should tone it down.
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Would be decent of them, and shuld, to be aware & tone it down, yes...
Sinna_Hime_chan posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
Makeupdiva said:
I totally understand where your coming from. But to get away from it either talk to your parents face to face and tell them it is making Du very uncomfortable to have to listen to them at night all the time. I don't think it's right just to let Du listen to them. Call up one of your Friends and go to their house for the night. oder Von an ipod and listen to Musik while falling asleep. I can understand why you're so uncomfortable, no teenager oder child should have to hear what their parents get up to at night. I hope this works out for you.
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Really? I don't think they should HAVE to leave -and if it is only once oder twice a week :/
Sinna_Hime_chan posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
sesshyswind said:
Talk to them and tell them that it's a problem for you, and if they are good parents they will at least be Mehr self-conscious about it and make an effort to be Mehr subtle and quiet.
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I agree but at the same time at least they are married, this is not a divorced mom oder dad bringing someone Home etc. ~ they are the "parents" & this is an older child.
Sinna_Hime_chan posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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I don't see where I suggested anything about the parents being married oder not, I just stated that they should (and I hope would) pipe it down if it's buggin the kiddies no matter how young oder old they may be. Not to do so would be indecent of them. .
sesshyswind posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
vampire2000 said:
if Du own a pc, ipod, ipad, mp3 player, just put in your ear buds and turn it up to 100. And if u own silencing head phones, put those on over your ear bud wile ur listening to the music..
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*ear buds
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sarahsnow said:
I just turned 14 and Last night my parents were having sex and I could here then almost all night. I could here moaning and I was like ewes!!!! I tired to not here the sound but it is so disturbing while trying to sleep. Also it gets me so mad when the have sex because they have no respect to the other ones in the house😤😤
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