Do Du HAVE to do all the oral stuff when having sex?

Cumpulsary? Oh no, not all all Sweetie. Some guys may make Du THINK it is, oder Von the way Du might overhear some people talk. No, no. When I was your age I wondered about that too. I am a grown up now and I still know some females who do not like. Some people have issues oder their reasons & maybe just chose not to & to forego oral sex oder foreplay all together. Most likely Du will become Mehr open minded to trying things later and most likely Du will enjoy it done TO you, even if Du may not really understand that now. I really do not know a woman who does NOT like that done to "her." To be honest, not that I did not like, I did, but I used to be the type to want to skip foreplay all together and was the impatient sort. I was not very cuddly oder schmetterling kisses either. Then again, things change. All of a sudden my tastes are influenced oder change & Du might, but absolutely no need to worry about that now oder even care if they do oder not-because it doesn't really matter right now and you'll discover your likes as Du go and step Von step as Du go on that journey. 'And if Du want to skip oder shy away from, that is fine. You'll discover what Du like and do not like in time.

There are actually a couple of things I don't like, lol-and shy away from. Those two on the oral sex part are fine with me, but I have yet to want oder enjoy some other things I have tried. So we all pick & choose and like some things and like others better, etc.

Not really. It's up to anyone who want's it. Du don't have to if Du don't want to. Oral sex is great for pleasure. Du might think it's unpleasant but it's great for people who do enjoy it. as long the man decides to wear a condom. this is basically up to any couple who decides to oder not.

Nothing is compulsory during sex. Never do anything that makes Du uncomfortable. Having sagte that, oral sex is great fun and there are plenty of sexual Guter Rat Bücher out there. My personal Favorit is "Getting It On"--I think the most Kürzlich edition is available, and its Guter Rat is very straightforward and includes info for remaining healthy. It is also LGBT friendly.

Don't worry about it. Really. Don't let people pressure Du either. If Du are not ready for sex Du are probably not ready for that "other" stuff either. If doesn't appeal then it doesn't. Being comfortable helps. Mutual trusting & respecting make it good. Personally I was not giving oral sex until I was ready FOR sex but then at YOUR age I got the girl pregnant. (It was not as it should have been and should not have happened that way.) If people wait until they are emotionally ready and think about consequences and all like Du are, then things will naturally work out better and naturally fall into place.

Names not slang: Member (for a guy's penis), and oral sex can be "Fellactio" -for giving head. Oral pleasure for going down on a female: Cunnilingus... etc. and sex can be called "Makinglove" if Du want to Mehr intimate term. Horny: Excited, Aroused, Stimulated... there are a lot ways to say things without seeming awkward. I hope that helps you.

Again, just don't worry-don't worry about it and don't let people pressure oder tell Du otherwise because all that is is BS.