How hard is it for Du to stay a virgin if Du still are one?

Yes!!! it Hard

I'm 16, it's not that hard... Sometimes I want it very much, but then I remember that I don't want to have sex with someone who would drop me after that, I need right person.
Why do Du want to stay a virgin at 19?

There are times when I would want to lose my virginity because I feel like Im not moving ahead...but other times...I want it to be perfect with someone I really Liebe & care about. I don't want to lose my virginity to someone that just wants to take it away from me & say "Oh...I got into that girls pants.."

im now 16 and there r times wen i have the urge to have sex but like others that have sagte the same thing i want my first time to be a beautiful experience and some guys at this age don't seem mature enough for that (at least the ones i know) so id rather wait cause there's nothing rushing me to do it! ^-^

VERY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT ELSE DO U WANT FRM ME, THT ALL I THINK ABOUT DUH!

if your not desperate it wont be very hard

I am 21 and sometimes it sure it is hard because Du hear how all your Friends are doing it and how Du seem like the only person in the world who is still a virgin. But in time Du know that Du made the right decision Von waiting.

Well...sometimes it's a little hard because I have these..desires, Du know. But insgesamt it's simple for me. There's not one guy in my town who I'd want to 'do it' with, and the only thing I'm feeling due to my peers' becoming sexually active is simple curiosity. So, it's not hard for me.

That is a very good thing that Du are not pressured, actually its a relief to hear it. But my Guter Rat is, Yes, stay a virgin! It possesses a value that can not be explained with common words. The right man for Du would truely appriciate it, and trust me, if he knows that Du saved it only for him, it can be one of those special little things... be wise, and be in control, if Du are not than what are you? Just a helpful word of advice.

About your desires, its normal to have them, but just be pacient, once Du loose it, Du can't get it back. So if Du give it up to the wrong boy to soon... well, regret can be too much. And the price Du pay, is Du Lost your Virginity to an Asshole!!!!!! For the Life of Du protect this with youir herz and soul! Don't ever let it happen, and evenually you'll know the Right moment, when it is best and right for you. I hope this helped.

Yeah, it's hard, not because of pressure oder anything, cuz I don't have a lot of close Friends in real life (i.e., not on Fanpop). But I'm very attracted to men, and all I can think about half the time is how much I want to sleep with someone. But so far, thank God, I haven't gegeben myself away yet.

I so badly want to lose my virginity! I don't think that i will ever meet the Liebe of my life, and if i did i'll probably be thirty three oder something and i don't want to lose my virginity in my thirties! So if a boy wants to have sex with me right now and i don't care how young i am, i would do it. Coz it is all i can think about and my feelings drive me crazy!

i cant say... i have sex (xD) and im 16.

your not alone.im 16 and most of my Friends hav doe it,but not me.im the "innocent"one of all my friends.its not that hard.i just try not to think of it.but i do sometimes.

and never feel embaressed oder alone in this situation