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what happens on the first time? does it hurt?

well, me and my boyfriend have been together for around 7 months and hes really sweet and all that, i Liebe him, but i dont know if i can loose my virginity to him, im just scared because it would be my first time and im worried that it might hurt, oder something could go wrong etc.
i get embarressed when i KISS him, so imagine how il being having sex with him.
i just need to know incase it happens, so i can get ready for whats coming, thanks :)
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Also i would liek to add I do agree with j1edwardcullen7, if are young and Du do have doubts, I suggest Du wait until you'r ready.
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j1edwardcullen7 said:
Have Du guys done anything else sexual?

link is a good guide for first timers.

Although the Artikel says that for girls it doesn't feel good, that's not necessarily true. Everybody's different, their nerves and bodies function differently too. It will hurt, because of muscle function, but after Du get into the habit of doing it, then Du won't feel as much pain. Spotting afterwards is regular. Use a lubricant/lubricated condom, make sure you're aroused, and relax - those all help pain. Tell him to stop, oder slow down if it hurts. It goes pretty fast.

I would say, if you're under 16, to wait. But if Du are absolutely positive Du Liebe him, then go forth with it!

Make sure to have a good condom, and/or some other form of reliable contraception. There are 19 million new STD/STI reports each year, and over half of them are in teenagers. Teens are at much higher risk of getting STIs/STDs.

Sex lives, however if good, can build stronger relationships, and enlighten your mood. But remember, bad sex lives also cause divorces at times.

Sex is important in relationships, if Du are active. If he isn't a virgin, talk to him about it! He can give Du good advice.

Simple answer; if Du have doubts, any at all - DO NOT DO IT.

Any of this opinionated information [^^] may be incorrect. I am a virgin.
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Vixie79 said:
It's acually not the hyman tissue that makes it hurt, it's the muscles of the canal that make it hurt. The first time it will because it's extremely tight, although it's different for everyone too. For me it was a very sharp sting, but it didn't last long really. After that it's awesome, Du get used to it really. Du may feel a sting before every time, but your body adjusts to it.
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death_L said:
yes it does hurt u, ur first time n maybe ur Sekunde time 2 cus on my ex it did so i had to put it in slowly letng her get ready to embrace the pain bt after that happens it feels great
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