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Would Du agree that sometimes a Fantasy can be so much better than a reality?

Considering the fact we are living in a horrible times with a lot of violence & all sorts of problems (political,economic,religious,cultural,ecological etc.),I believe a Fantasy is our ONLY ESCAPE from a cruel reality.I hope I'm not the only one though!
 BJsRealm posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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kingcesar67 said:
Hell yeah!
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
BlindBandit92 said:
You're just one of those pessimists that view everything as terrible without even thinking logically oder whatever. Du are living in a "cruel world" Whether Du like it oder not. When Du live the Fantasy Du go back there. This world isn't all that bad and the fact Du allow everything to bother Du says alot about your character,ideals and personality.

Stop crying and moaning so much and understand good things we have in life because there's no telling if we'll have all of those things forever. This world is in balance. There's bad and good etc. Like riku I allow myself to be caught up in Fantasy sometimes but that won't deter me from being realistic.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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Preeeeeccch
Riku114 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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I agree. We should face reality and focus on the good things in life and possibly try to change the bad instead of trying to make a Fantasy where there are only good things.
legend_of_roxas posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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^I do not care in the slightest. Stop talking to me.
BlindBandit92 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
Zeppie said:
Nahh..
I mean imagining things can be kind of comforting and nice.
But if Du put the work into your reality to make it how Du want it to be, then nothing beats it.
It's pretty easy to brush off reality as 'horrible' and 'cruel' while putting in zero effort to change your current situation. Happiness doesn't come from nothing.
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Sparklefairy375 said:
After read your reason, I have to agree.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
Riku114 said:
No.

It may [seem] better since they are an escape, they can be happier oder Mehr depressing and either way it can usually take away from reality and make it easier to handle, but - no.

As nice as it may [seem] and as it may [feel] reality always holds number one and better simply because it is real. Very little that comes from a Fantasy will carry on to progress into something real and, most times, when carried out of hand, Ive come to find all it does is save in the short run, destroy in the long run.

Its like a pain pill. Take them occasionally when Du need it, but take them too often oder too much and it will be the death of you.

That being said, I am one of the absolute largest culprits of using a Fantasy to get away from it; I recognize it does me no good and perhaps even harm in the long run.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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@Riku114 ?!? I'm rather confused tbh.So,U prefer a cruel reality over a Fantasy where everything is perfect.I wonder have U watched any news lately?This world is depressing enough 2 say@least.Who would want 2 live in such a world Von choice?! =>NOT ME!!
BJsRealm posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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Of course it is. But Du get it wrong. There IS NO choice in living in a imperfect, horrific, depressing reality oder a perfect fantasy. There isnt an option. Theres reality oder theres ignorance (if Fantasy is meaning a warped sense of the world) and Tag dreams. Neither of which later are good for you.
Riku114 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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^XD Its just something I thought a lot about in the past XD
Riku114 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
Mauserfan1910 said:
My entire existence is a fantasy
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
ShadowFan100 said:
As someone who does have a habit of preferring Fantasy over the real world (for obvious reasons), I don't think Du should spend too much time in your head. As overwhelming as the real world can be, we cannot ignore it forever. There are problems and issues out there that NEED our attention.

And there's a lot of them :|
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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^Thats where I stand too. Ive spent too much time in Fantasy and learned from it tbh.
Riku114 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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^ And apart of me really does enjoy fantasizing, it's fun. It does let me catch a break from reality, but I know I can't avoid it forever. To think this way is to basically fool yourself. And this is coming from an Autistic who has a hard time with change and the way things are.
ShadowFan100 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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^Oh I say Du shouldnt but I still do it way Mehr than I should. Simply cause Im wayyyy too invested in my stories at this point and trying to break the habit would put a threat to the stories XD
Riku114 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
Lelouchx said:
*yawns* brooooo
No, I disagree.
whats wrong with reality? we are not responsible for the shit that happens around the world
I'm living a great life,of course I don't mind mixing Fantasy sometimes (mostly dirty ones lol)
the world! (cruelty-sad-hard-upsetting) why would Du involve yourself with such words?? Du have your own world
don't let outside world crisis and shit ruins your view in life.
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Riku114 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
WinterSpirit809 said:
Of course it is because a Fantasy is anything Du want it to be and reality is just whatever it wants to be.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
EgoMouse said:
Well, Du sagte sometimes, so I guess yes.
Although, I guess its pretty funny that all the problems Du listed are all human related and largely affects just people.
I don't really think we're in such horrible times tho.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
TheLefteris24 said:
That is pretty subjective. There are the kind of fantasies that indeed can be considered better than a person's current reality. However, secluding ourselves in an Imaginative World Von rejecting the real one as a whole is another matter entirely. I agree with many others before me. This is no way to live. When it comes to our reality, it depends on the person. Each one has their own Ansichten and stance on Life as well as their own personal dealings throughout it. Not everyone shares the same outlook. Certainly, our World isn't perfect and a whole lot of issues can be found anywhere. What will change if Du run away though? If those fantasies of yours are so much better, why don't Du do your best to apply them on your reality too? What if everyone actually confronted that cruel reality instead of running away from it on their own? I personally believe this a much better option.

Anyway, I can see your reasoning since I am quite a Daydreamer myself and for sure, major improvements are needed but I can't say that an alternative like this is the ONLY path !!!!
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candylover246 said:
In the long run, basing your life solely on Fantasy isore harmful than anything. It won't erase all the problems in the world, it won't help Du with your own issues, simply put it won't fix anything in providing an escape nor is it possible.
A few years Vor as a bitter & angsty pre-teen I might've thought things differently but now, I rather live in reality noatter how harsh it may be over a false world that would only keep me in blissful ignorance.



Unless there's aliens
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
Articuno224 said:
Absolutely! I Liebe a lot of things in real life, but to be honest I prefer the universe of movies, TV Shows and Dreams a lot more!! I'm not trying to escape oder anything I just Liebe it far Mehr for damn many reasons.

But then again, we wouldn't really have any of those things if it wasn't for reality xD
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zanhar1 said:
100% all the time, I'm such an escapist. But some times reality suffices. For example I've always dreamed of meeting Lana and having a long conversation with her. I got to meet her very briefly in reality and I'm super thankful and feel super blessed. I think that sometimes Du just have to compromise in a sense; it may not be as good as it is in your head but don't let extremely high expectations ruin a good thing.
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