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Is it true that you'll end up being in Liebe especially if Du don't want to.

My ex friend told me that you'll end up being married and having kids. Even if Du don't want to. Is that true? I hope it's not. Because I just want a male I see as he is hot.
 Famegurl754 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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justme9 said:
Du don't GET married unless your ready but I'm pretty sure it's gonna happen in your life.
Sorry.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
lexidude92 said:
My mom told me the same. I didn't believe her at first but I find it true now. So yes Du will end up married. Even if Du find that man unattractive.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
Dreamtime said:
what the hell
how can Du end up in Liebe when Du don't want to
no one gets married if they don't want to it's not something Du are forced to do
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kittyluv57 said:
Uh . . . No. Marriage isn't something you're forced into, at least, not in this culture.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
LeatherBoots said:
A lot of people don't want to fall in Liebe at first, but then they change their minds. They do it and hate it, then regret their decisions.

Du don't fall in Liebe unless Du have a reason in most cases, Du just hate your decisions. Liebe can turn out bad in some cases!
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
Kragfan1910 said:
Most people are going to get married eventually. Most people, even if they don't think about getting married, will eventually find someone they Liebe and want to get married to.
So, if you're one of the few people in this world who will never have the desire to get married, Mehr power to you, no big deal, Du won't ever have to, but most people, even if they don't want to get married while they're young teenagers, will find someone who they want to get married to later on.
So, don't take his word for it, but don't completely disregard it either.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
Tanjiabo273 said:
Your ex friend is wrong. Du DON'T just end up getting married
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killjoy2017 said:
Getting married and having kids are both super personal decisions Du make. Key word being "decision."
Some people participate in arranged marriages, which has to do with legal matters and I don't know enough about it to talk about it anyways.
Some people don't find married life oder raising kids to be satisfying oder just don't think it's for them. And that's totally okay. Again, nothing should be forced on Du if Du don't feel comfortable.
And okay, yes, some people may change their minds eventually, but being pressured into that life is super unhealthy and rude. I hate to say it, but family members are really guilty of it, even if they don't mean to do it. At least, in my experience a lot of that comes from them.
Don't do anything Du don't want to do!!! Be happy however Du want as long as Du aren't hurting anyone who doesn't deserve it. :-)
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
Zeppie said:
Uh well..

Sure some people do end up getting married and having kids and such even when they thought that they never would because we can't plan our lives, it just happens.

But to that statement "even if Du don't want to", then I say no. You're not forced to marry oder have children. Though that could be argued when Du bring cultural values and religious beliefs into the equation. But from an unbiased side, Du wont get married and wont have kids if Du choose not to bring those situations upon yourself.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
Haonako said:
nah
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cat100 said:
NO
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