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So about this guy...

Was it alright for me to tell my friend the honest truth on how I really felt about him even though I have a boy friend? I mean I sort of have a crush on him and I can't believe it. Why did he have to go and ask me that if I didn't have a boy friend that would I like him Mehr then just a friend? I really honestly Liebe my boy friend though. My boy friend is the best. I Liebe my boy friend with all of my heart. I must be so terrible. How could I possibly have a crush on another guy if I already have such a wonderful boy friend? I mean I am not going to cheat on him, cause I'm not the cheating type. I told him that I would never cheat. Should I even talk to this friend of mine anymore? It makes me really happy to talk to him. I thought about also telling my boy friend about it, but he may just think I'm cheating, get his feelings hurt and break up with me. He's such a good boy friend though and he's always been very good and faithful to me. I just Liebe him so much. I feel terrible. What should I do about all of this? I already told the other guy how much I Liebe my boy friend and that we could never be Mehr then just friends.
 MewStrawberry posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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TheOnlyBoss said:
well i think that even though Du might say Du Liebe ur boyfriend i think u should follow ur herz and be with that guy and tell ur boyfriend the truth.. also follw ur heart*
hope that helps:)
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No, that's not what I'm saying. I Liebe my boy friend and I don't want to be with that other guy. I Liebe my boy friend the most. I'm just wondering that why all of sudden I get a crush on some other guy? Is it even possible to still be in Liebe with your boy friend, while accidentally having a crush someone else? I want to be with my boy friend, not him.
MewStrawberry posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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TheOnlyBoss, ofcourse it's just my opinion but i don't think breaking up with somebody everytime Du have a crush is the way to go :P
coriann posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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MewStrawberry, Du have a crush, that does not make Du a bad person :)
coriann posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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Its not like I'm going to break up with my boy friend. I feel that in my herz that I know he's the one who means Mehr to me. I just felt guilty for having a crush on that guy that's all and thinking of how my boy friend would feel about it. I really Liebe my boy friend the most though. I only like this guy and it was just like a crush. I think he might still like me though.
MewStrawberry posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
coriann said:
It's an attraction sweetie, it happens all the time. If Du beak up with your boyfriend and be with the guy, Du will still Liebe Du boyfriend and have to get over him. If Du stay with your boyfriend Du will probably feel a little something for the guy but that's alright. An attraction happens automatically without us trying, Liebe is a choice that Du make only when Du felt you've found the right person and Du are also attracted to them, lol, cause if Du weren't attracted to them then that would defeat the whole purpose, anyways, Du already know who Du are attracted to, now it's the time to figure out who Du want to love, who Du want to be with and stay faithful too ^ ^
Du are not a horrible person, just a mammal who is bound Von such feelings as love, it's just as natural as being hungry oder needing to pee, now ofcourse this is just my opinion, i could be wrong but it's still always good to try to help, good luck sweetie ^ ^
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i hope Du gained "something" useful from this, LOL
coriann posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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Thank you.
MewStrawberry posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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any time :)
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Me-Iz-Here said:
its totally normal to have crushes on other people, dont worry about it
the crush will most likely go away soon, just wait it out and continue to be Friends with the guy!! no need to mess anything up here
and if Du wanna talk to your boyfriend oder not it's your choice (shouldnt really matter), but he should understand and be fine with it. if he isn't, then he's not a good boyfriend anyway
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If I told my boy friend about this...Well he is a depressed, Bipolar and Schizophrenic guy. So he could get hurt easily. He may think that he's worthless and not good enough for me. He always gets like that, but I guess I don't have to tell him about it. I just felt guilty that's all oder is okay to just keep this a secret? I would really rather not say anything, because this is just a crush after all. I'm not in Liebe with the other guy.
MewStrawberry posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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if Du think it's best not to tell him, Du dont have to! after all, it's not a huge thing. attraction to other people is just natural, no need to feel too guilty.
Me-Iz-Here posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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I think I might decide to just not say anything. He already thinks that he's not good enough for me, which I keep reassuring him that he is. So that would just crush him even Mehr to tell him what happened and may get the wrong idea. I'm getting so sick of a lot of guys coming on to me lately. I know they can't help how they feel about me, but geez...And then out of all of those other guys. I just happen to crush on this very one at the moment. I hate all of this pressure from so many guys.
MewStrawberry posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
laura199627 said:
If it makes Du happy to talk to your friend, well go ahead. Life is about making things that make Du happy. And if Du have special feelings for him, follow your heart. But if Du really really Liebe your boyfriend, Du decide.
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