firstly, welcome to fanpop! that's how it works. 1Add someone 2Give a Requisiten and say "hi i've added you!" 3this user will add you( he/she'll peobably give a Requisiten back) in here, no one adds Du if Du ask for it.
I was actually going to earlier, but I have a strict rule of having to have 5 Clubs in common with someone before I Fan them. Sometimes I break the rule if people aren't in very many Clubs in general, but even then we have to have at least one in common. And since Du haven't joined any clubs... I can't add you.