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I've Lost my best friend.

On tuesday both of my best Friends told me that they don't want to hang out with me anymore. Now I hang out with my other friend, but she also hangs out with her other Friends that I'm not Friends with, so I always feel akward like I don't belong. I've tried hanging out with some of my other Friends too, but I always feel akward because I feel like I don't belong anywhere.

Also, yesterday I found out that my crush likes someone else. And it's a girl a few years younger than him, they're not even in the same grade. But I can't get over him, and I really want to tell him how I feel about him, but I don't know what he'll say, and I don't want to get hurt even worse. But now there's a guy a Jahr older than me that I think likes me, because he talks to me on FB and he told me I'm cute. I think he's kinda cute too, and he seems nice, so I guess I wouldn't mind dating him if he decided to ask me out, but I still have a crush on the other guy.

What should I do?

 daisylove posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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fly210 said:
well I can't really help Du that much execpt telling Du 2 things.
1) everyone gets kicked out of the group eventualy. Just take it as a time to meet new people. most likly they will be your Friends again after a Monat at most.

2)It is prooven that the "loners" oder "misfits" in a school do better in their adult years then populars. So this may be good for your future.

sorry that that is all I can tell you. Hope it helps! :D

p.s. with the boyfriend thing I got no clue. just follow your heart. If Du do that you'll never be wrong.
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Thnx for the advice. c:
daisylove posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
AnimeFan66 said:
First off, I know what Du are going through- friendship can be herz breaking at times and it's hard to trust Friends when they don't know everything about Du oder unless they trust Du with everything Du tell them. The best thing to do about your old Friends oder this friend is to just stay away from them and start meeting new people. I know meeting new people and making new Friends is tough but eventually Du feel a lot better. As for your dating situatuions, that is for Du to decide- if this other guy your dating currently is looking at other girls, then it's best to tell him through and tell him that it can't work out that well (even though it will be diffcult and herz breaking to explain it all). This other guy Du should try to get to knowing him, but be carefull- Du never know what can happen next.
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i'm sorry if none of what i am saying is helping you, but i have been through these situations many times.
AnimeFan66 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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Thnx for the advice. c:
daisylove posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
ginger805 said:
well, this is only MY opinion but i think i, if i were u, that maybe if u still miss both of ur old Friends maybe u can talk 2 them and work thigs out with them. u can also ask out ur crush, i mean u have nothing 2 loose if he says no so wat Bewegen but if he says yes then go for it. and about the other guy that u think he likes u and u KINDA like him back well, u can try being Friends with him.
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I've tried talking to my old friends, but they just try to avoid me & don't want to talk to me. :c
daisylove posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
EmzLovesCheryl said:
1) If she was ever a true friend, she wouldn't just suddenly drop you. My 'friend' did that once. She just decided that she didn't like me anymore, then the Weiter Tag decided that nothing had ever happened. I confronted her, and she admitted that it was all just stupid, and could we just forget it. I like her I guess, we have a laugh together, but I know that she's not the sort of friend that I could trust. We get on, she's fun to hang out with, but that's all our friendship is. It doesn't get to the point when I feel that I could text her in the middle of the night and hear that she still wants to talk to me. I don't know, but I kind of get the feeling that that's what the friendship is between Du and your best friend was. Maybe, maybe not, I'm not you. But just bär in mind that a true friend will stick Von Du no matter what, and maybe Du should think about who your best Friends really are.
Friendship is hard. But give things a bit longer and see how things progress. Du may find that these other Friends will end up being way Mehr trustworthy than your ex-friend ever was. It takes a while to feel like you're officially part of a group, but that's only natural. You'll get to know them, and they'll get to know you; and you'll possibly find that they're kind of Friends that Du always wanted, Du just didn't realize it till it came. In time things will work out, really. Friendship groups are always changing, everywhere, and sometimes it's for the best. Good luck.

2) I can't really give Du much Guter Rat on this one, just follow your heart.

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Thnx for the advice. c:
daisylove posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
rapunzeleah123 said:
Don't worry.

A best "friend" told me she didn't want to be Friends with me anymore, also.
Surprisingly, I felt no sense of loss oder hurt, because I realized that she couldn't be a true friend if she wanted to stop being friends. You'll find someone out there who understands and likes Du as a person :)

About your crush.
"Crush" is the key word here. Depending on how old Du are, it's highly doubtful that the dating thing will last through college oder even high school. Besides, the crush will wear off way before that, trust me.
I would suggest asking the other guy out. Your crush will see that you've (possibly) moved on, and might let go of the other girl and go to you. If he doesn't, he ain't worth it, sweetheart.
Good luck,
--Rapunzel
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Completely agree with you, Du put that really well. :)
EmzLovesCheryl posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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Thanks :)
rapunzeleah123 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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No problem :)
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Goldilottes said:
Oh hun you're in a bad situ.. </3 I was in one like that a while Vor so i get how confused and worried Du feel. Its a hard situation cos of the bff thing then the crush thing. I'll start with the bff thing- I have two 'best friends' -_- that sometimes go off with eachother and leave me out too, and the only other half Friends i have i feel awkward with too.
firstly, Du should tell your problems to your mom, she's probably been there herself. Du should also talk to your so called best Friends and find out why they sagte that to you.. altho i think i already know- most girls don't get on in friendships of 3, so 2 of them group together so both of them are safe, and leave out the third. personally i find that pathetic, but thats what most girls are like. Du should tell them that Du have other worries too and would appreciate their support, and offer your if ever they have any problems too. let them know Du value their friendship, but don't be a doormat. they don't sound like good Friends to me, so if the talk is unsuccessful, then just use them like they used you. just use them to talk to in school so Du dont have to hang out with awkward people. -If Du dont want to do that and still value their friendship, then try talking to your favourite female teacher about it. there's normally always one nice teacher that likes Du and understands everything. Du should get that sorted out, but not so that the other 2 girls get told off, because that will make them dislike Du more.


About the boy situation, Du should definitely look into that. first to say, i'm not sure about either of those two boys Du mention. i am disappointed for Du that the boy Du like doesnt SEEM to like you, because i've been there and its the worst gutting feeling of all. especially when he likes someone else instead, that really kills. There are a few options of what Du can do about him. they will depend on what your frame of mind is like. If Du are feeling strong, ready for a risk and not ready to let your problems overtake you, then wait until Du are on your own with him and hint that Du like him. then, drop into a conversation the Frage of if there happens to anyone he likes. he probably wouldn't say 'yeah, you.' even if he did like you, so be prepared for that. boys just arent like that unfortuantely for us :(
but before Du talk to him, do your homework Von finding out as much information as Du can. get talking to his Friends and yours, but don't make it too obvious Du like him.. this could have disastrous effect on Du if it all goes wrong and it turns out ha has no feelings for Du whatsoever. (i think he probably has a little bit, cos otherwise Du wouldnt have liked him in the first place.)
also, get talking to the girl he supposedly likes and find out if its true and if she likes him too. again, don't be obvious.

(please see Kommentar below for the rest)
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But as soon as it becomes obvious that it isnt going to work, take a step back from him, and wait for things to blow over. Du never know, he might start liking you. but only if Du make yourself likeable.
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As for the other guy, Du shouldn't automatically choose him just because he likes you- there has to be a spark. I can tell Von they way Du write about him that Du aren't 100% sure Du like him, which is no good. BUT, if Du got to know him better, Du may like him. I think it is probably mostly because Du are so pre-occupied Von your crush on the other guy that Du don't really notice the one who likes you. he might turn out to be amazing.
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Its ok, i hope its not too long :)
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alismouha said:
Who else didn't bother to read all of that?
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