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Alright, if Du were close Friends with someone the same sex as you, and Du both had gym changing lockers Weiter to each other and Du found out that that other person was gay/lesbian, what would Du do?

First off, sorry if Du actually are gay oder lesbian and Du think that I'm, like, excluding Du oder something. I'm not trying to.
Second, (just cuz I like answering my own questions) I don't really think that I would care. My best friend is bisexual, and I have another friend who's lesbian, and I don't feel weird around them oder anything like that. I'm just curious to see what Du peoples think.
(P.S. If this sounds politically incorrect at all, I'm sooooo sorry, I don't mean for this to sound anti-gay oder anything like that.)
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dont worry. it doesnt sound lik ur anti gay
ryofangirl posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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It doesn't look like you're a homophobe, no worry. And I actully wouldn't care. Everyone has their own orientation. No one is "better" oder "worse" because of their choice.
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r-pattz said:
I'm a lesbian.

No, I am not going to bug out on Du for sounding anti-gay, and with my answer I'm not speaking to Du (the OP) specifically. I'm just gonna explain something.

Gays aren't attracted to everyone the same sex as them. I don't want to fuck ever girl I meet. My experiences in the locker room are as follows: I go in. I get changed. I don't feel any sort of attraction towards anyone else near me. I leave locker room. The end.

So there's absolutely no reason to feel weirded out. (Well, no legitimate reason, that is. Ignorance doesn't count.) It's a locker room. You're getting ready for gym. Maybe a lesbian oder gay guy would feel a little spark of emotion for someone (a SPECIFIC crush) but straights feel the same thing. It's kinda like comparing a gay's locker room experience to a straight's pool party experience. The only situation where it might be at all awkward is if the gay in Frage had a serious crush on someone in that locker room. Of course, think about it. Such a bad, known crush would make it awkward for straights, too. There's no difference. Sexuality doesn't matter.

But since the Frage was 'how would that make Du feel?' my answer is "Whatever." I quite obviously wouldn't care if the person Weiter to me was gay. =P
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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Amen to that.
cloudstrifefan posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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What do Du mean fly? O_o Lol, but thanks. But it's an arctic fox, not a wolf. ^_^
r-pattz posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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COOL!!
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HeyItsMe8137 said:
Well, I wouldn't judge them and freak out but, I would talk to them and tell them how I feel about it.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
cloudstrifefan said:
I TOTALLY get where your standing here pal.
(Across the street!!)Anyway,I agree with your answer,so Du just answered your own question:D
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
xxemogirl101xx said:
Stay as far away as possible
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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Why?
emilyroxx posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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why? because xxemogirl101xx is a homophobe that's why. dont freak out
EntertainMee posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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:/
r-pattz posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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It's not a desease, Du know :/
HaleyDewit posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
LillianIsweird said:
I wouldn't freak out. I wouldn't feel that weird if it was my good friend.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
Jeffersonian said:
I have a few Friends that are gay oder bisexual. Unless I felt like they were seriously checking me out oder something along those lines I wouldn't feel really that awkward. Then again it might be kind of flattering because if she found me good looking there would likely be guys that would find me good looking too. Hope that doesn't sound too weird.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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No, it doesn't. I agree.
emilyroxx posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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I agree. I mean, I would feel a little weird, I still do with a few of my Friends , if Du get where I'm coming from, but they're still my Friends and I know they won't try to force that on me, so we're all cool.
x-menobsessed26 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
EntertainMee said:
i am straight and i have 1 gay friend and 1 lesbian friend. in my experience, Du shouldn't worry about it. your friend is still the same person. being in the same locker room section should not change anything. most gays and Lesben know to not go after the straights so i wouldn't worry about any attraction. my lesbian friend and i have been in the same locker room section Von the way. and she never looked in anyone's direction. she did what she had to do and got out. just don't let her feel bad for being a lesbian...after all she can't help who she is.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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Why would someone feel bad for being a lesbian? (Unless someone was being a jerk to them. Thats never fun.)
emilyroxx posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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^ Lol. Gays don't really WANT to be gay. If I had a choice, I'd be straight. Du feel like a disappointment to your family. I think that's the biggest reason why a gay would feel bad about it.
r-pattz posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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Well. Good that it's better now.
r-pattz posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
Sugartooth900 said:
Nothing. Just keep moving on with my life.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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Agree
zombiestars posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
Cries_Bloodlova said:
i Would do Nothing Just Continue Being There Friend
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
kiraragirl200 said:
I would remain Friends with that person, I have lesbian and bisexual friends, and it doesn't bother me at all. :D
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
duncanlovR said:
Just because they're gay doesn't mean they're attracted to you specifically..

And if she was attracted, yeah ok. Enjoy the Zeigen I guess.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
GWENxTRENT said:
Well, I'm bi, so I wouldn't really care. If my best friend is a lesbian, so I don't really care and I have a guy friend soooo...nope, I wouldn't feel wired.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
xXSweeneyXx said:
I'm awkward about being nude in front of anyone including my dogs. I would treat it off as anything though, not Schauspielen differently. My best friend is bisexual and does not have any romantic interest in me. Most people don't have any romantic interest in me, and I'm pretty sure Lesben aren't attracted to every woman they see, so I wouldn't think twice about it.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
Lovehinagurl44 said:
I would continue to be her friend because I don't have a problem with gay people. If the friend started to like me I wouldn't continue to be her friend...it would be too weird.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
samuraibond005 said:
I myself am bisexual, but I am twitterpated so if this person is a close friend then chances are they already know about my girlfriend. And even then they would know I have no desire for a sexual relationship so to answer your Frage I would just continue to be a good friend.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
ryofangirl said:
lemme answer that with this:

im Friends with two bisexual girls (i was close to one of them when she told me she was bi and our relationship was the same if not stronger). the two used to go out, but one moved away. and i have gym with the one who stayed and we got to kno each other. so, yea. i got no problem with gays oder bi's. :) their emotions r the same and they rn't really differnt from straight people.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
Lawli-gagger said:
I'd continue to get dressed.

What else can I do?
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
deathroman13 said:
I don't mind.

I am straight but I have Friends who are bi oder lesbian and I hang out with them. I don't care what oder who Du are.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
zanesaaomgfan said:
Who cares? Du should except them for who they are. Just like how some do for me. :)
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
GaGaBoi said:
Well i'm gay so... i'd probably do them.


That is all. ~
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EmzLovesCheryl said:
Well, it wouldn't make any difference to me. Just because they're not straight, doesn't mean they're going to be attracted to you, just as a straight guy wouldn't necessarily be attracted to you. I have lots of gay friends, and it doesn't make any difference to me. We're all people, and I accept everyone for who they are, not matter what their sexuality.

One of my close Friends is a lesbian, and she confessed she had a crush on me, and yet I still didn't really feel weirded out then, even though I'm straight. I just had to tell her that I didn't think I could ever feel that way about her, and she understood, it's what she was expecting anyway. We've always been in eachother's pockets anyway, it didn't really surprise me that she wouldn't be having thoughts. She is a gorgeous girl though, it did get me considering. :)
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x-menobsessed26 said:
I'm straight, but I know that I have a few gay friends. I have absolutely no problem with them. They don't try to force who they are (hense, it's who they are, okay people. They can't help who they are) on me, and I don't try to force my way of life on them. It's called simple respect and common curtoisy (I totally spelled that wrong). If Du can't handle that, then Du really need to shut up oder go change in a bathroom oder something. I'm not comfortable changing in front of anyone ever so that's what I did, and it's not for the gay thing. There's always other alternatives than being a jerk.
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MasterOfFear said:
I only ever went into a locker room for a couple days, and i transferred out of gym after that.
My friend, who is bi, was there, but it was never awkward because i never got undressed oder anything.

Seeing my friend getting undressed didn't affect me at all, but i was just embarrassed seeing everyone else get undressed.

And i dislike it when people think that just because they know a person who is gay, that person HAS to harbor some type of attraction towards that person. It's just plain stupid.
People have spread rumors about me going out with both of my bi best-friends, it was incredibly immature to assume such a thing.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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I hate locker rooms. :( They do make me embarrased.
LinaHarrow posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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It's incredibly humiliating. I'm surprised so many guys/girls feel so comfortable with getting undressed in front of people in a public place.
MasterOfFear posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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Yeah. I usually go to the downstairs one so I'm Von myself if I have to change. But upstairs, the other people will be playing around and changing.
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