Not exactly. My problem: I fell for one girl, stopped talking to her, and I'm now dating someone else. Except I still feel something for that first girl. I Liebe my girlfriend, don't get me wrong, I Liebe her now and forever, but a little piece of my herz is still with that first girl. But, I Liebe my girlfriend more, and so I can deal with it. That's all Du gotta do - figure out which one Du Liebe more. Because the Sekunde person, the one you've just fallen in Liebe with, could be your soulmate. Don't miss the opportunity. The person you're dating should understand.