what do i do with the guy who played me?

theres this guy lets call him jim and i told him i liked him and he thought it was funny so he went along with it and pretended he liked me. i felt really hurt when i found out he didn't really like me. but now he told me that after spending some time with me he ended up liking me but i didnt believe him. i told him that even if he really did i could never be with him because i couldnt tell if he was lying oder not. do Du think i've done the right thing?
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Karthigesh said:
Yes, of course Du did the right thing. Do not look back at this decision. It is NOT right that he played with your feelings because yours were real and that made Du vulnerable to actually tell him how Du felt. Instead of respecting Du as a person, he goes and messes with those feelings.

As a guy I've seen many guys do this to girls because they don't have the courage to actually tell Du they don't have feelings for Du when Du tell them Du like them. So they adopt these pathetic methods so that Du will be the one walking away instead of them.

Right now, just ignore him, tell him that Liebe is not something to be played with and YOUR herz is not a plaything to be tossed around like this. Du deserve better than him, just leave him be and live your life and find someone who is willing to lay his herz for Du and build something real and solid with you, that is what is important.

One last thing, do not let him phase you, chances are Du might feel guilty because of this and he might play to that side of Du to gain some sympathy but DO NOT give him an inch, if he did like you, he would have been honest from the get-go, not like this...
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thank Du that makes me feel so much better
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megann1992 said:
Oh yes, you've definitely done the right thing! Trust me, I've been in that situation before. I liked a guy all throughout high school (he was the "popular" guy, I wasn't beliebt at all) and instead of him just telling me that he wasn't interested, he made me believe that he was actually interested.

If he had told me from the beginning that he didn't like me like that, it would've hurt, but I would have gotten over it. But he didn't and I was such a naive person and believed him when he acted interested, I ended up getting Mehr hurt than I would have if he had been honest.

So trust me, you've done the right thing! He was a jerk for doing that to Du and he doesn't deserve a Sekunde chance.
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thank Du
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whitney_ann said:
Yes Du did do the right think. Du shouldn't be with someone that is for one going to lie about even liking you,how could Du trust him about anything else,honey i say its his lose not yours<3
Remember don't let guys like that in your heart,if Du do then let him right back out! Hope this helps you.
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thank Du it helps a lot
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Karipoof said:
Yes of course. If it were me I would've done something way worse. Once a boy got me really angry (he did something he really wasn't supposed to) so me and my best friend planned to drop weights on his pp organ and then when he ended up in the hospital we would have gone there, beat up two nurses and take their uniforms.Then go to his room and put a treadmill on his organ and run on the treadmill. Then we were going to push the treadmill through the window and jump through the window too. Du can use our idea if Du want...lol...
But yes Du did the right thing. If Du get involved with him, unless Du have a lie detector, you're never gonna be able to tell if he's lying oder not and you'll just end up being hurt worse if Du found out he really was lying. Also he's rather quite immature to toy with your feeling, thinking it is funny to do so. So yes. Du most definitely did the right thing. *hugs*

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thank Du a heap and ill take your plan into consideration. XD
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No probz you're welcome. Oh but to carry out my plan, Du need ninja skills so Du can jump through the window and beat up the nurses...lol...I hope everything works out well for you. :)
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laurenandaston said:
Du should Bewegen on and meet someone that like loves u and not someone thaa lies 2 u xxx

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thank Du xx
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writer67 said:
pity how games amuse small minds, paybacs . no let him be . aprils fools is coming plan a gay event like a Singen birthyday gram, a valentines card with peeper. back to studying. hunting oder prey. the play comes later. enjoy the game of the hunt, dont put your u on the front line that Du can not dodge a bullet. your still learning. do u think uove done right if u learnt a lesson of life gently;-]
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thanks
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