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I'm a Christian teen and I need some help, it's about dating.

There is a guy in my youth group that I've liked for 11 months, about six months Vor he finally got on the right path with God and I liked him even more. We started talking Mehr then. The closer we got as Friends the Mehr I liked him. Two months Vor I told him that I liked him and now we never talk.

WHAT SHOULD I DO? Please help me, I don't know what to do. I've prayed and prayed but can someone please give me some advise?
 hottie23 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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abs07 said:
Have Du asked God to give Du peace about the situation? Sometimes we just have to let these things go. Have Du tried talking to him? Like small talk to smooth things over? If Du have & he gave/gives Du the cold shoulder then I'd back off. If Du really feel like there's something left to say after much prayer & seeking God, then ask Him to guide your words if Du need to confront the guy. Be nice. If you're ok being his friend, let him know if that's what God puts on your heart. If he's still standoffish after that, I'd definitely leave the him alone cause clearly he'd have a lot of growing up to do...
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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I've asked God for peace but every time I come close to finding peace this guy will do something that my feelings for him come back. Thanks for the help:)
hottie23 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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Well just be Friends with him if he doens't want to datum Du not saying your feeling would just go away but at least he's Friends with Du then who knows mayba he will start to like Du back ♥
huddygirl2 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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It's ok to have feelings but asking God for peace isn't a one time deal. Du have to seek him daily for the help for renewed strength and grace with the situation. So that whether things work out oder not, Du will be fantastic with God at your side.
abs07 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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thank Du both, that really helped me:)
hottie23 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
nathoonder said:
Sometimes when i find myself troubled i ask myself, how will this situation effect me in ten years? But I konw its sucks having a broken herz but keep prayihng and get support from your Friends is the only Guter Rat i have to give in that regard. Hope everything works out 4 u.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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thanks for the advice:)
hottie23 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
LadyL68 said:
He stoped talking to Du after Du sagte Du like him? I'm sorry.

Maybe he likes Du too, & just wasn't ready for a relationship. oder maybe he only liked Du as a friend.

Either way, it's worth talking to him. Call him oder confront him Weiter time Du go to Church. Ask him if he's angry, & apologise if Du offended him in any way. Tell him you're ready to get back on track with him.
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posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr 
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thanks for the Guter Rat but it's been four months since i've talked to him and i've pretty much gotten over him. i apologized and tried to talk to him about things but he blew me off. we go to diffenrent churches now and i rarely see him anymore so since he was being imature, and is still Schauspielen that way, that just means he's not ready for a relationship, doesn't like me, oder isn't the one for me and I'm fine with that now.
hottie23 posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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