I think she did, because plot device aside, it doesn't make sense to me that Xander would be the only one to keep any abilities or memories.

It just wouldn't have come up I think, because military skills were usefull to the scoobies, but something like a newfound ability to sew or whatever isn't exactly helpfull. She wouldn't have tried to tap into those memories, but I think if she had tried she would've been just as able to as Xander was

it would make no sense at all if he remember in she didn't, the reason it never got brought up was probably s you said because they didn't need it and Xanders memories were a plot device.

You know, I thought Buffy's fashion sense started to drastically improve not long after this. Maybe it was the subconscious influence of the noblewoman who had dedicated most of her life to her appearance lol.

LOL @ Mermaid-Tail. That explains everything! =D

Yeah I'm assuming that she would still remember all of the things that she knew from that experience.
But it seemed like she was a bit dim and didn't know all that much except which man was and wasn't suitable for her to marry.
And well as far as I'm concerned that ability is not THE most important bit of knowledge to have when slaying vampires!

I also think that Willow would have some memories of what it's like to die and be a ghost. And a lot of the poor kids would have nightmares.

I've seen a fanfic where she has new classical dancing skills. I expect she'd have a lot of that kind of thing, music and art and the type of stuff women learned centuries ago to be considered "accomplished". It never came up because it never proved useful for the plot.